Q: My fiancé and I have a three year old son who we would like to have in the wedding. I also have a niece and nephew who I would like to have as flower girl and ring bearer. Is it acceptable to have two ring bearers or is there something else that I could have either my son or my nephew do to be included in the wedding ceremony itself?
A: You can certainly have two ring bearers in the wedding party. They can each carry a ring pillow with a fake ring attached to each. (You wouldn't want to place your real wedding bands on the pillows - let your best man hold onto them!) You might want to practice at home with them and explain what they're expected to do. I'm sure they'll be very excited and feel quite important!