January 6th

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Jerry W. Venz from The Storytellers, a member of Professional Photographers of America

 

Tip of the Day: Schedule your engagement photo session early on in the wedding-planning process (some brides do it up to a year in advance). Not only will this give you ample time to incorporate your gorgeous photos into your save-the-date, but it will also validate your choice of photographer and give you a sneak preview of the big day.

"We use this session to get to know our couples and teach them how to stand, how to sit, what to do with their hands and feet so they look their best when being photographed. Every time we do an engagement session for our couples, their wedding images turn out better and they have a great time," says Jerry W. Venz from The Storytellers, a member of Professional Photographers of America.

January 1st

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Andrew Chan

Tip of the Day: Just a taste, please. Tasting stations have taken over the cocktail hour, with couples showing off their favorite foods in manageable portions. From oyster shucking stations and mac ’n cheese bars, to make-it-your-own taco stands to local food trucks pulling right up to the patio, the idea is to surprise your guests with an unexpected assortment of party food.

Check out more Fun Ideas for Your Cocktail Hour.

Etiquette Q&A: "Do I Need to Send a Gift Even If I'm Not Attending the Shower?"

Q. "I’ve been invited to a bridal shower and won’t be able to attend. Do I still need to send a gift? If so, how much should I spend?"

A. Yes, you should still send a gift even though you don’t plan to be there. As far as the amount to spend, it really depends on your budget and how close you are to the bride. There are no hard-and-fast rules as to what shower gifts should cost, and I’m sure the bride-to-be will appreciate whatever you send her.

bridal shower opening gifts
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If her registry is listed on the shower invite, take a look at her gift list. Most brides sign up for a variety of items in all price ranges, so you should be able to find something affordable.

If she is not registered, ask her family or bridesmaids if there’s anything in particular the couple needs for their home. You might also consider giving her a gift that’s a bit more unique such as a certificate for a spa treatment, antique linens or a decorative vintage mirror. Check out 7 Thoughtful Bridal Shower Gift Ideas.

—Diane Forden

December 31st

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David Nicholas

Tip of the Day: Getting married around the holidays? "Your goal should be to own the holiday-inspired theme without going overboard and focusing on just the holiday. Instead, make subtle nods to the special day that you are sharing your wedding with. It’s very important to let your wedding be about style, color and you…not the holiday itself," says celebrity wedding planner David Tutera.

"To keep a personal feel, decor and embellishments should drive the concept and not the holiday. For example, utilize elements available in the season: winter spices, spring flowers, summer beaches or the fall harvest are all great ways to incorporate the time of year without being too literal," he adds.

Plus, check out Fun New Year's Eve Wedding Ideas.

Watch: Woman Freaks Out During Surprise Christmas Proposal

When Cody gave his girlfriend Amanda her Christmas gift, he didn't exactly get the reaction that he expected!

He handed her a box that instructed her to solve a puzzle. His unsuspecting bride pulled out cardboard letters one by one, spelling out "W-I-L-L" "Y-O-U" "M-A-R-R-Y" "M-E." However, she couldn't finish because she broke down into hysterics by the time she got to the "Y." We think it's safe to assume that the answer was "yes!"

15 Things You Should Never Say to a Bride

While planning a wedding is something that you may have dreamt about and looked forward to doing for most of your life, it can also be a very stressful and emotional process. As a bride, you will turn to your close friends and family members throughout the engagement to help cheer you along and make the journey extra special. However, sometimes those same loved ones can start to feel a little too comfortable, and say the one wrong thing that at the drop of a hat, changes everything.

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