Corey and I have been crunching numbers for the wedding lately, so we decided to reward ourselves by checking off something sweet on our to-do list. What could be better than choosing the perfect wedding cake? It gave us a totally valid excuse to cheat on our diet and play Willy Wonka for a day! We used three criteria to search for the perfect bakery: taste, appearance, and, you guessed it, price. This past week, we went cake-tasting around Indianapolis, and although I had already scheduled appointments well into next weekend, we've already made a decision.

The first bakery we tried didn’t offer formal tastings. Instead, they let us take home a 6-inch sample featuring their two classic flavors: chocolate and vanilla. My fiancé and I loved sharing this yummy cake together in the privacy of our own home, but it was difficult to imagine how it would actually look, since we didn't get to flip through sample photos, like you would normally do at a bakery consultation.

Next, we took a trip to a quaint little bakery that is known for their donuts (my dad raves about them). We sampled cupcakes in their most popular favors: vanilla, lemon and strawberry. This bakery had display cakes, so we were able to use them as a point of reference to get a sense of their cake designs. The samples were delicious and the prices were extremely affordable, but we had another appointment to get to the following day.

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When the groom's grandparents—who have been married for 72 years—couldn't make the cross-country trip for his wedding, they sent a hilarious video offering marriage advice (like, "Be good to each other." "Make sure that you have food in your Frigidaire, because you do not want to be hungry or starved." "Help each other in every way.") and a sweet toast to the happy couple. 

The final piece of advice? "Don't argue with each other," says Selma, before amending: "If I didn't argue with you and if i didn't fight you, we wouldn't be there together for how many years?" Kenny adds: "We went to bed happy—after our fights." "That's because we were tired of fighting" quips Selma. 

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Tell us: What's the best piece of marriage advice you've heard?

—Kristen O'Gorman Klein

Each week, we feature wedding music recommendations from Scratch Weddings, the nation's leader with the best wedding DJs at affordable prices. This week's post comes from DJ Dos, a bi-coastal success and is in demand from corporate clients like Macy's and celebrity clients Jennifer Lopez and Tony Hawk. Dos-A's professionalism and unique style help his parties transcend cookie-cutter standards, and bring every event that he touches to the next level. "At weddings, I am channeling the couple's and guests' tastes and feeding it back to them with music they love." And clients love Dos-A's style and selections. He always delivers on his promise to keep his crowd smiling and feet moving all night long.

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Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth got engaged in June, but they're in no rush to walk down the aisle. "Life is too short not to be with the person you want to be with," Cyrus said in a recent interview. "I don't really care about the wedding or the piece of paper as much as I do the promise we've made to each other. And we want to have a long engagement."

At BG, we're no stranger to the idea of a lengthy engagement — web editor Kristen O'Gorman Klein was engaged for two years, and web producer Stefania Sainato will be engaged for three years. Here's what we've learned about the benefits and drawbacks to having a longer-than-average engagement.

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