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Q. My fiancé and I live on the West Coast, as does my entire family. However, his relatives live on the East Coast. We both want to marry near our families and can't agree on the location. What should we do? 

A. Unfortunately, there's no easy solution. I do understand your fiancé wanting to have his members in attendance and undoubtedly, traveling across country would be difficult for many of them. However, weddings are traditionally held in the bride's hometown, and since you — and most of your relatives — live on the West Coast, this would seem to be the logical choice. Also, if your parents are helping to pay for part of the wedding, you need to take that into consideration.

Lena Dunham of Girls fame shared a revealing childhood sketch with her Twitter followers detailing what her dream wedding would consist of someday. I don't watch the acclaimed HBO series so I don't know too much about her, but anyone who wants a pasta bar at their reception is a girl after my own heart! The White Stripes were slated to make a live performance so she must have had an inkling that her comedy-drama TV pilot would eventually get picked up by a major network. 

Photo Credit: Lena Dunham's official Twitter account

This glimpse into the actress' private life poses a fascinating question: When you were a child, what did you think getting married would be like? If I were to unearth the drawings from my elementary school keepsake box, I'd be hard-pressed to find a poufy white dress and handsome Prince Charming anywhere. The one thing I remember thinking as a little girl was that I absolutely had to arrive to my wedding in a horse-drawn carriage, just like my cousin did on her big day in the '90s. Other than that, I was too busy doodling my future apartment, where I'd go to Harvard, drive a red Mustang and own an adorable cocker spaniel just like the one in Lady & the Tramp. None of those things came to pass (sorry, past self!). 

A couple of months ago, a bride asked me how to incorporate a wedding theme without sacrificing any style points. It's a not-so-secret fact that I'm not the biggest fan of wedding themes in general, but I must say that a golf-themed wedding (which is what she was proposing) was especially hard for me to comprehend. It was a design conundrum!

In an effort to help her, I sourced ways that she could incorporate her fiancé's passion. In the process, I became in tune with the idea that adding a few meaningful details can turn an ordinary theme into a wedding that is a celebration of everything the two of you love together. Now that I've officially converted into a theme-loving gal, I thought I'd share some of my favorite wedding shoots that don't scream kitsch.

Ever After
Ever After is my favorite movie because the storyline hit incredibly close to home. If you've ever dreamt of having your fairytale moment, then get inspired by this beautiful shoot inspired by the film. Incorporate your favorite quote about love on a mirror, chalkboard, or even throughout your paper products to tie them all together.

This shoot was originally featured on Le Magnifique.

I’ve always loved the sound of wind chimes. There’s something magical and mystical about their tranquil, tinkling tones, which is why I was delighted to come across a fantastic array of wind chimes from Woodstock Chimes. Not only are these wind chimes lovely to look at, but each one also has a distinct musical sound courtesy of Grammy award-winning musician and instrument designer Garry Kvistad. He has fashioned each wind chime to have its own “voice” based on famous melodies and scales. I had a blast just listening to the chime melodies on their website (check it out!).

Wind chimes would be a fantastic addition to your wedding celebration. You can hang several from tree branches for an outdoor ceremony or cocktail party or give them as gifts to your wedding party. Here, a couple placed wind chimes on a bridge for their photo op:

At Woodstock Chimes, there are over 200 wind chimes to choose from, with prices starting at just $10. These Gem Drop Chimes (a great buy at $10!) are a unique gift for your bridesmaids and are available in wedding-perfect shades like violet, shamrock, sapphire, crystal and rose:

This article originally appeared on The Huffington Post

Well, this is one way to use a car!

Latemodel Restoration, an online Ford Mustang parts and accessories store, tweeted a photo Monday of a marriage proposal, orchestrated by Texas Mustang enthusiast Felix Flores, spelled out in (what else?) Mustangs. Check it out below:

Photo courtesy of Late Model Restoration via Twitter

Latemodel Restoration also posted the photo on their Facebook page, and groom-to-be Flores commented that his girlfriend, Addy Moreno, loves Mustangs and drives a red 2000 GT convertible. Moreno wrote that she loved the proposal, and Latemodel Restoration confirmed that she said "yes!"

Loverly is the heart of weddings: a visual inspiration search engine designed to help brides discover ideas, people to hire, and things to buy. Loverly makes finding beautiful wedding inspiration easier than ever! Their images are powered by the best wedding publishers and wedding shopping partners on the web. Find Bridal Guide on Loverly >>

One of the first things we do as engaged gals is decide who will stand up with us on our big day. And, there are lots of spots to fill: Bridesmaid, MOH, flower girl...you know, the wedding party! But what should you do if you want to include 16 of your closest girlfriends/sorority sisters/cousins and you're not keen on the idea of having a Kardashian-style soirée? Consider giving these additional roles to loved ones who aren't in the bridal party to make them feel special and appreciated, too.

Harry Styles had the performance of a lifetime this past weekend — playing Best Man at his mum's second wedding! The 19-year-old One Direction singer walked mother Anne Cox down the aisle as she married longtime partner Robin Twist, who helped raise Styles after his parents divorce (when he was just seven years old). The nuptials took place at Pecks Restaurant in Chesire, England.

The 19-year-old "Kiss You" and "That's What Makes You Beautiful" crooner shared the honorable title with his step-brother, Mike, while his sister, Gemma, acted as Maid of Honor. He and the groom wore matching suits from Burberry for the special occasion, accessorized with a white rose on the lapel (to match Mom's bouquet).

Photo Credit: gemmastagram on Instagram

As if the whole thing couldn't get any sweeter, he reportedly sang "Isn't She Lovely," which was his audition song for X Factor, the show that catapulted the band into stardom! Swoon. According to The Daily Mail, Styles has always been vocal about his close relationship with his mother, saying, "I tell her everything and she knows the truth."

Photo Credit: HarryStyles on Instagram

Guest blogger: Nicole Lapin, Editor-in-Chief of Recessionista.com. She is the founder and CEO of Nothing But Gold Productions, a multimedia production company focused on creating accessible financial content across television, print and digital platforms. Lapin is the former anchor of CNBC’s "Worldwide Exchange," the only global show on the network. Lapin was also a contributor on MSNBC and served as a personal finance expert on NBC’s "Today Show." Prior to CNBC, Lapin was the youngest anchor ever on CNN.

So you’ve been chosen as your gal pal to be one of her bridesmaids. Congrats! We’re sure you’re thrilled, as you should be. But guess who’s less than thrilled? Your wallet. The truth is, after the dress, accessories, travel expenses, gifts…being in someone’s wedding is downright pricey. In fact, a recent poll conducted by American Express found that bridal party attendants spent an average of $577 in 2012, which is about $200 more than the year prior. So what’s a gal to do?

First things first, speak with your bride or the Maid of Honor about any budget concerns immediately after accepting the position. This will ensure that everyone is on the same page with what they can afford, and will lessen the chance of uncomfortable money conversations down the road.

Loverly is the heart of weddings: a visual inspiration search engine designed to help brides discover ideas, people to hire, and things to buy. Loverly makes finding beautiful wedding inspiration easier than ever! Their images are powered by the best wedding publishers and wedding shopping partners on the web. Find Bridal Guide on Loverly >>

Billy Idol may have made white weddings famous in the 1980s, but we’re still digging the idea for 2013! White wedding details are anything but boring, and they offer some clear benefits. They’re easy (no more trying to explain the difference between sage green and pistachio green!), versatile (think lace table linens for a vintage wedding and sleek white chairs for a modern wedding), and classic.

Here are some of our favorite white wedding ideas: 

I am a creature of habit in the kitchen — as well as a bit of a cookware snob. When I cook (which is almost every night), it's only with enameled cast iron or plain cast iron pans, the same kind my parents always used. It actually never occured to me to try stainless steel for anything other than heating up water for coffee or tea. That is, until I had the chance to test-drive a sauté pan from Cristel, the esteemed French cookware company. 

Cristel's innovative design was the initial draw, and with good reason: The handles on the Strate Removable line are detachable and interchangeable. Remove the long handle and attach two smaller grips and voilà: table-worthy serve ware right from the stove. You also get more room in the sink come cleanup time, along with easier storage capabilities, a particular advantage to the cabinet-challenged.