Photo Credit: Jason Kaczorowski Photography  

If you’re one of those girls who has been daydreaming about your wedding for years, did you ever stop and think about the size of the wedding you wanted? I never really considered it, but have been thinking about this a lot as of late. There are pros and cons to each size wedding that you’ll want to keep in mind.

Small Wedding
 

2 – 50 guests. If you're having a destination wedding or civil ceremony, 50 people might sound like a lot, but think about it: You’ve got mom and dad (times two), grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends, co-workers. The numbers are starting to get up there, aren’t they? The major pro of a small wedding is that you can make it extremely intimate and personal—you'll spend a significant amount of time with each guest.

[Editor's Note: This week, real bride guest blogger Jessica Lubin Hall explains why she and her husband James decided to have a second wedding reception. We thought her story was fascinating—she makes a compelling case. Take it away, Jess!]

While our wedding took place this past June in New York, there were a lot of people from my hometown of Phoenix who either couldn’t make it or we weren't able to invite because of size. So my parents hosted a second reception at their home last month. We had an absolute blast catching up with friends I’ve known my whole life. And we even had a signature cocktail, dubbed the J & J Cocktail, with vodka and watermelon puree. It was divine.

We put out a copy of the invitation that my cousin-in-law's mom painted for us and the guest book for everyone to sign. Our invitations were essentially the same, just without a response card and ribbon detail (RSVP info was listed on the invite). 

My mom and I really wanted to echo the wedding at the house. While we couldn’t be in the beautiful Hudson Valley, we reused my wedding candles throughout the house on tables and mantles. My mom also bought luminarias that we put out by the pool and lit when the sun went down. They really helped create more ambiance, and light, to the outside.

I don’t know about you, but I am stu-umped for gifts this year. I normally go on a buying bonanza whenever I’m traveling and stock up up on goodies for the fam., but this year, not so much. If you are in my similar oh-gosh-whatever-am-I-going-to-buy? boat then  you’ll totally appreciate this amazing travel book-slash-tool from the hip (and helpful) team at Jetsetter.com.

Imagine that you're flying far away from all of the wedding-planning stress and skipping out on the bills. Amazing, right? It gets even better: Every decision has been predetermined for you by The Ultimate Real Bride Panel and executed by one of the most sought-after celeb party planners in the world. 

Now, picture a spectacular venue, oh, let's say about 1,454 feet above the glittering skyline of New York City. By the way, you're getting married on the most romantic day of the year.

Sounds like the ultimate fantasy, but it's actually all part of "The Wings of Love," a new contest thrown by the Empire State Building and Colin Cowie. Four lucky couples will win a free Valentine's Day wedding at the iconic NYC landmark, which only hosts weddings once a year on that day.

Facebook fans will vote on everything from the brides' Kleinfeld dresses, grooms' Men's Wearhouse tuxes, flowers, and cake, a la The Today Show. The fun doesn't stop there: Once the wedding is over, they'll decide which couple should win the grand prize of $100,000, to kick off their newlywed bliss. 

Most weddings are focused around the big things: venue, dress, food and dancing. However, small, well thought-out details can have a huge impact without breaking the bank! I know I’m not the only Real Bride to spend hours wide-eyed searching through Pinterest, right? It’s a great site to encourage you to get creative and it’s the inspiration behind some of these ideas.

1. Cookies and milk. I LOVE the idea of bringing out champagne flutes filled with milk and stacked with a warm chocolate chip cookie on top towards the end of the reception. I never thought this tasty combo could look classy, but it totally does! The only reason we probably won’t be doing this at our wedding is because we think almost everyone will be drinking and milk just doesn’t mesh well with booze, unfortunately.

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The Annual Victoria's Secret Fashion Show is infamous for its high-energy, fun catwalk (bedecked in glitter, natch) and equally rousing musical performances (this year, Beyonce sang along with husband Jay-Z from the sidelines). 

Select your fantasy theme based on your honeymoon destination—props optional.

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One of the best things about personalizing your wedding is all of the memorable keepsakes you can create. That's why we instantly fell in love with this creative guest book/table number combo.

Photo Credit: Fuzzy Gerdes/Flickr 

The best part is that it's super easy to make. On each table, place a blank notebook inside of an envelope with the corresponding table number/anniversary year. Immediately after the wedding, seal those envelopes so that you're not tempted to take a peek before the right anniversary! Then, on each anniversary, you'll get to break out the corresponding envelope and enjoy some of the messages from your beloved friends and family members.

Check out more of our favorite unique wedding guest books!

—Kristen O'Gorman Klein