Most people probably think this title doesn’t make much sense. While some may think the word “tomboy” means not feminine and more masculine—that really isn’t the case. “Bride” on the other hand makes us think gorgeous, glamorous and very feminine. How does one incorporate the vision without being too much of the above? It’s a matter of perception and preference.
When we think of a gown that’s a little more classic or elegant, a bride doesn’t have to wear the typical white with ruffles and ringlets in her hair to look like a bride. In fact, with some of the gown styles today you don’t even have to wear white. The gown doesn’t have to be embellished with floral and bling. It can be a light beige or champagne with spaghetti straps and maybe a criss-cross back. This gives charm and appeal in its own way. Sometimes less is more for certain people. So for those of you who are sweating over the idea that you’ll have to look like you belong on a cake topper in order to fit the vision of what a princess bride is, I’m here to calm your nerves and tell you that you don’t. Choose the style that reflects your personality and makes you comfortable.
The idea of flowers everywhere may be another reason why a no-frills bride might panic. If flowers just aren’t your style, there are other things nature can provide that are simple yet elegant in many ways. Think of using branches in a vase with river rocks and candles on the tables. If your wedding is in the fall, incorporate filling many different-sized pillar vases with leaves of all different colors and use large chunky candles in between them to add ambiance to the room. This shows your appreciation for the season and also gives your guests a warm feeling. Again, not super feminine but simple and elegant.
Your special day should reflect your tastes and personalities. Music, dancing and just having a great time is truly the goal for any bride whether they are “Tomboyish” or “Pinkalicious.” We all want our guests to have a fabulous time, right? Remember, as you plan the details of your wedding, no one is expecting anything different than who you are. Weddings can put an enormous amount of pressure on the bride as she may feel that keeping up with the rest of her clan is expected. It’s not. Your closest friends and loved ones will expect to see you in true form that day. Just knowing that you’re about to marry your best friend, lover and life partner will allow you to share the inner glow on the outside as well. That’s something your guests hope to see more than anything!
Happy Planning!
XO Samantha
Posted by Samantha at 4:22 p.m.
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