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The Tomboy Bride

Most people probably think this title doesn’t make much sense. While some may think the word “tomboy” means not feminine and more masculine—that really isn’t the case. “Bride” on the other hand makes us think gorgeous, glamorous and very feminine. How does one incorporate the vision without being too much of the above? It’s a matter of perception and preference.

When we think of a gown that’s a little more classic or elegant, a bride doesn’t have to wear the typical white with ruffles and ringlets in her hair to look like a bride. In fact, with some of the gown styles today you don’t even have to wear white. The gown doesn’t have to be embellished with floral and bling. It can be a light beige or champagne with spaghetti straps and maybe a criss-cross back. This gives charm and appeal in its own way. Sometimes less is more for certain people. So for those of you who are sweating over the idea that you’ll have to look like you belong on a cake topper in order to fit the vision of what a princess bride is, I’m here to calm your nerves and tell you that you don’t. Choose the style that reflects your personality and makes you comfortable.

The idea of flowers everywhere may be another reason why a no-frills bride might panic. If flowers just aren’t your style, there are other things nature can provide that are simple yet elegant in many ways. Think of using branches in a vase with river rocks and candles on the tables. If your wedding is in the fall, incorporate filling many different-sized pillar vases with leaves of all different colors and use large chunky candles in between them to add ambiance to the room. This shows your appreciation for the season and also gives your guests a warm feeling. Again, not super feminine but simple and elegant.

Open Marriage?

I was reading about Oscar nominee Mo'Nique and was surprised to hear that she and her husband Sidney Hicks have an open marriage! I was also shocked to hear that while she has not had relations with others she can’t say for sure if her husband has. Huh?! If you have this type of a relationship, wouldn’t you want to know—shouldn’t you know? I’d think that was the point of having an open relationship—to not have any secrets.

I don’t know about you, but isn’t the reason we get married to be with only one person? I guess I get the whole swinging thing and people of different cultures having relations with various people while being married, but I certainly don’t agree with it. It’s bad enough that women and men have affairs before they tie the knot, but now we’re allowing them to seek out others while they’re with us? What’s the point of getting married if you’re not satisfied with what you have? How can you go into the marriage knowing your new husband is sleeping with others you know nothing about? How can this not come around someday and bite you? What if he gets someone pregnant or picks up a disease? Why would you want to risk that chance? I guess if both people are OK with this, then it’s no one’s business but theirs.

Have you ever been engaged or married only to find your true love had betrayed you with another woman or man? How did you handle it and do you feel an open marriage prevents people from having affairs and getting divorced? Do you believe that having this type of relationship can only make it stronger?

I’d love to hear what you think, and ladies, NO holding back! Tell me how you really feel!

XO Sam

Posted by Samantha at 2:01 p.m.

Who Says Restaurants Are Just For Dining?

I’m sure we all have a favorite restaurant that gives us that warm fuzzy feeling inside every time we think about it. We’ve used these special places for catering memorable events, such as birthday and engagement parties, but did you know you can actually rent your favorite restaurant for a wedding? I’m not talking about a room in the back, but the entire space. Not only is this possible, but celebrities have been doing this as well.

I was just reading how Mad Men star Christina Hendricks and her husband Geoffrey Arend celebrated their nuptials at their favorite restaurant in NYC, Il Buco. The couple invited 70 of their closest friends and family to celebrate their day. This allowed them to spend more time with the ones they loved and was far from overwhelming. It can be very difficult to enjoy your wedding when you’re worried about greeting 300 guests. They dined on fabulous Italian cuisine, danced to a ‘30s- and ‘40s-inspired jazz band and had tarot card readings in the restaurant’s wine cellar. How cool is that?

The bridal party was decked out in vintage outfits put together by Mad Men stylist Allison Leach. The groomsmen had boutonnieres made of rose hips and berries, and each of their suits were subtly different. I loved the oranges and reds that were apparent in the ties and handkerchiefs they sported. The ladies wore different types of vintage 40s dresses and shoes. They all looked totally classic and elegant in the photos! I love when couples take their ideas and turn them into original options.

Having your wedding at a restaurant makes perfect sense to me, especially if it’s a place you absolutely love. All restaurants have rules and minimums, but it's worth it to ask and see what they have to offer. You may even find that this option actually saves you money. Great food, wonderful ambiance and cost effective? Who could ask for more?

xoxo
Sam

Celebrity Registry!

Creating a wedding registry used to be simple. There was a standard list of everything you needed as a married couple—toaster, towels, bed linens, utensils, etc.—and all you needed to do was add them to your registry. Today, that list doesn’t exactly apply. Most of us already have all those basics and more. So that leaves each couple with the same question: What do we register for since we both have the same items?

The nice thing about registering today is that you don't necessarily have to ask for all the traditional items. It’s perfectly acceptable to ask for other things, such as furniture, luggage, romantic honeymoons and even supplies to fit in your new camper. Some wedding vendors are even allowing you to register with them so that you can get a better video package or photo book. Did you know you can also register for a down payment fund with your local bank? For those who are looking for a fast way to save a lump sum this is certainly a winner. Your guests will love the fact that their gift has allowed you to buy a home together!

I’ve always wondered what celebs ask for when they obviously do well enough to afford anything they want. Here are a few celeb couples that had some interesting items on their registry!

Let's take one of our recent brides, Ivanka Trump. What does someone like Ivanka ask for? One of the least expensive items one her list was a silicone spatula from Williams-Sonoma for $7. You would think the millionaire couple could afford their own cookware. Well think again! The couple also asked for a $1,300 silver bowl from Tiffany, a $500 sterling silver picture frame, an Elsa Peretti carving knife for $225 and a $290 silver vegetable spoon. Yes, you heard me, $290 for a veggie spoon! I hope it has other benefits, too.

It’s that Time of the Year

Did you know that 19% of Americans will get engaged between Thanksgiving and New Year’s?

There are so many great ways one can propose—while skydiving, on the beach under the moonlight, in a hot-air balloon (make sure you have a good grasp on that ring) or possibly on a canoe in the middle of the river. The media doesn't really focus on how the silver screen folks pop the question, so I thought I’d share a few of my favorite celebrity proposals with you!

Let's start with Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones. The evening of the countdown to the millennium was their special date. Michael's home in Aspen was the perfect setting for a New Year’s proposal. After the couple celebrated with friends, Michael privately presented Catherine with an antique 10-carat marquise-cut diamond ring. Obviously she said yes, and the couple announced their engagement the next day.

Tom Cruise proposed to Katie Holmes while vacationing in Paris with a 5-carat diamond in 2005. This was a shortly after they began dating—2 months! I guess when it feels right, it's right. Tom popped the question very early in the morning while they were on top of the Eiffel Tower. This may sound a bit much, but you have to admit the Paris landmark is an extremely romantic setting for a proposal. To top it off, Tom proposed again after they had a fabulous, private candlelit meal at the Tower’s restaurant, Le Jules Verne.

Party Like a Rock Star!

Have you ever wondered how some of your favorite stars celebrate before the big day? You’d me amazed how similar their parties are to those thrown by regular folks like you and me!

I thought it might be fun to share some of our favorite celebs’ pre-wedding celebrations. They may have money, but they don't always need to splurge on everything! With the right food and beverages, along with some sexy tunes to shake your bootie, you too can party like a celeb—trust me!

Josh Duhamel and Fergie decided to combine their bachelorette and bachelor parties and invited 75 of their friends for dinner and dancing at the Dakota Lounge in Santa Monica. This is pretty much what most couples today are doing before the main event. The days of celebrating with just the girls are a thing of the past for many. Some brides and grooms even have couples showers thrown for them. Having one big party together allows everyone to hang loose and just be around the ones they care about in a fun environment. No matter how much you have to splurge or where you go, the most important thing is celebrating with the people you know and love!

Rather than having just one big night together, some stars opt to spread the festivities out over a few days. When Britney Spears and Kevin Federline got married, Britney kicked off the wedding weekend with a bachelorette bash at the Fairmont Miramar Hotel while Kevin and his friends decided to have dinner at a nearby Houston’s restaurant. Although the evening started with each group doing their own thing, they all ended the night together with a party at the hotel. The next day they split up again for some relaxing fun—the girls went to the Burke Williams spa and the guys hit the links.

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