One of the first major wedding tasks that I tackled with my fiancé, Jesse, was the guest list. As a wedding planner, I knew how important it was to start with this step! The guest list has the single largest impact on the wedding budget, from the size of your venue to the meal you serve to how many table centerpieces you'll need.
Here are some helpful questions we asked ourselves throughout this process to help make it as easy as possible:
1. What is your ideal guest count range?
Jesse and I decided that we would like to have around 100 to 150 guests. We want our big day to have an intimate vibe, but we also realized that since we have larger extended families, those relatives would take up the majority of the seats if we tried to stay under 100, so we bumped it up to 150!
2. Where do you want to draw the line with extended family?
After compiling a list of all our relatives we plan on inviting, we ran it by our parents and grandparents to make sure there wasn't someone we were missing who should be included. We also wanted to get their feedback on whether we cut off our invites at an acceptable place since our relatives may go to them first with questions.
For my dad's family with eight living siblings, it was my aunts and uncles, with the exception of a few cousins that I see on a regular basis for holidays. If we would have gone much further than that, then our list would have had 75 people from his side alone! My mom's side was easy — she only has four sisters and I have grown up with all of my cousins so we kept it to aunts and cousins.
