How to Make Your Courthouse Wedding Still Feel Personal

Treat it just like any gorgeous wedding day! "The location of where you tie the knot doesn't have to determine how 'special' the occasion is. If you're planning for courthouse nuptials, do some of the same things others do at more 'traditional' wedding venues. Hire a photographer, wear a fancy wedding dress/suit or outfit, invite your close family or friends to greet you after the ceremony. You can still make it a personal and memorable celebration regardless of the location. In the end, the most exciting part is getting married to your person." —Eventlightenment Planning

Wear personalized attire. "Wear something that reflects your personal style. A courthouse elopement is the perfect setting to show off your personal style, whether that be a traditional, classic dress or something with a bit of color. There are no rules!" —Rebecca Glayzer, Senior Merchandising Manager, Poppy

Don't forget professional hair and makeup. "Just because you opt for a small courthouse wedding, doesn't mean you have to forego some important vendors who can help make the day feel special. I highly recommend brides getting their hair and makeup professionally done and hiring a photographer. You will want to remember this day forever, and you want to make sure you look and feel your best in the images captured. I have had some brides express regret over making the day too casual since it was so small and wish they invested in some professional vendors." —Melanie Levin, Owner, LuckEleven Events

Bring in family and friends. "While a courthouse wedding is generally more intimate, you can still include your closest family and friends in the celebration. This can make the day feel more special and create lasting memories with loved ones." —WCO Events

Have customized moments wherever possible. "Courthouse weddings can be as unique as you are! Consider a custom sign-in book filled with messages from your loved ones, exchange vows in a place with special meaning, or even bring along your furry friend for support and adorable photos." —Jennifer Cortiella, Cortiella Photography

Capture the memories. "Hire a photographer to document your courthouse wedding so you can cherish the memories for years to come. Having professional photos will allow you to relive the special moments and emotions of your intimate day." —WCO Events

Write each other love letters. "Your intimate wedding deserves all the love and attention to detail of a grand affair. Consider writing love letters to each other to read before the ceremony, wearing a unique family heirloom, or having a close friend capture behind-the-scenes moments." —Jennifer Cortiella, Cortiella Photography

Decorate the space. "Bring a few decorations to the courthouse. A small bouquet of flowers, a pretty backdrop, or some candles can add a personal touch." —Anastasia Shevchenko, Founder and Lead Creative, Sheff Production Photography & Videography

Have someone record the ceremony. "Intimate, micro-wedding trends are still going strong and it's easy to see why. Just because the guest list is smaller, doesn't mean the celebration is or has to feel less personal. Writing your own vows is one of my favorite ways to personalize your ceremony and make it your own. You could also ask to have someone record your ceremony to show to family and friends unable to attend and make a great video to look back on." —Kari Smith, CEO & Lead Planner, Feathered Arrow Studio

Incorporate meaningful music. "Create a playlist of songs that are special to you as a couple. Play them before and after the ceremony to set the mood." —Anastasia Shevchenko, Founder and Lead Creative, Sheff Production Photography & Videography

Plan an activity afterwards. "A wedding is special regardless of where it's held, even in a courthouse. In fact, some of the most beautiful architecture throughout the nation is found in courthouses! If you want some more action, plan an activity after the deed is done. Go surfing, on a hike, or arrange for a boozy picnic. Include friends and family, or don't! A courthouse wedding doesn't have to be settling; make it special and memorable in your own unique and authentic way." —Nora Sheils, Founder Bridal Bliss, Co-Founder Rock Paper Coin

Host an intimate reception. "Host a small, personalized reception afterwards. It could be a cozy dinner at a favorite restaurant, a backyard gathering with close friends and family, or even a picnic in a meaningful spot." —Rebecca Glayzer, Senior Merchandising Manager, Poppy

Follow up with a meaningful announcement. "Send out personalized announcements to family and friends who couldn't attend, sharing memories from your day and any special moments." —Rebecca Glayzer, Senior Merchandising Manager, Poppy

Consider a follow-up celebration. "Plan a bigger celebration later. A party or reception with all your friends and family can extend the joy and allow everyone to celebrate with you." —Anastasia Shevchenko, Founder and Lead Creative, Sheff Production Photography & Videography

Plan a destination photo session. "Oftentimes keeping things intimate leaves incredible room for creating meaningful, sentimental and intentional memories. To keep it memorable, consider planning for a photo session with a small group of family and friends following your vows and a dinner party at your favorite restaurant. Both are great ways to create space for the celebration, while still holding to the priority of protecting your peace with a smaller event. Another option if you choose a small courthouse wedding with a honeymoon or getaway after, is to plan a session in the destination of your choosing to document the early moments of newlywed life.” - Cora Proper, Cora Jane Photography