March 17th

Photo by: Josh Gruetzmacher on Snippet and Ink via Lover.ly

Tip of the Day: Don't be afraid to incorporate bold colors or patterns into your invitations! Just stick to small doses, like the patterned envelope liner and border on the cards in the paper suite pictured above. 

The hand-stitched look harkens back to Victorian times when the society ladies would stitch for hours, making gorgeous creations. The citrusy shade keeps the look modern instead of being outdated.

Plus, check out Gorgeous New Invitations by Claire Pettibone.

Etiquette Q&A: "Should We Have a Cash Bar?"

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Photo Credit: D. Park Photography

Q: My parents are paying for the wedding and do not want liquor served at the reception. My fiancé and I disagree, and we have enough money saved to pay for it ourselves. How should I tell my parents, or should we offer a cash bar?

A: First of all, no cash bar! Guests should never be expected to pay for any of the food or drinks at a wedding. If you and your fiancé can afford to provide alcoholic beverages, then by all means do so. Let your parents know that it’s important to you that alcohol is served and you’re more than happy to pick up the tab. They may not approve, but ultimately, it’s your choice, and as long as you’re footing the bill, they shouldn’t object. 

In order to save on the cost, consider serving only beer and wine, and compare the price of the house liquor as opposed to name brands. You may to able to save more than you think. Stocking your own bar? Here's how much booze you'll need ► 

—Diane Forden

March 14th

Photo on Mindy Weiss via Lover.ly

Tip of the Day: Think about scheduling your gown shopping appointments during the week for more time, fewer crowds, and maybe even less harried sales staff. The dreamy privacy that comes with having an appointment at 1 p.m. on a Tuesday might be worth taking half a personal day off from work, if you have one to spare.

Plus, check out 25 Lace Wedding Gowns We Love. Visit sharonnaylor.net for more great wedding tips and advice.

6 Things I Learned in 6 Months of Marriage

My husband Jason and I recently passed the half-year mark and we came full circle by celebrating at the same restaurant where we had our rehearsal dinner. While digging into a plate of crab cakes and The Perfect Storm cocktails, we reminisced about all of the milestones we've had since saying "I do." The ink is barely dry on our marriage certificate and we still have a lifetime of memories to make.

However, even in this short amount of time, it's incredible to witness how much our lives have changed. Here's what we've learned so far — newlyweds, what other lessons would you add to my list? Everyone's experience is different!

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Photo Credit: Josh Lynn Photography

1. Discuss expectations for being an awesome spouse.
During our first week back to the real world, I silently wondered what Jason expected from me now that I was his wife rather than his fiancée. Despite nine happy years of dating under our belt, a small and irrational part of me worried that I'd fail to balance everything: household chores, my career, our love life, friends and family, etc. I'd witnessed with other couples how resentment could build up over time because of a lack of give-and-take. Jason reassured me that he didn't fall in love with me because of how well I could iron his dress shirts or cook interesting meals. 

Change of Plans: Jessica Simpson & Eric Johnson Won't Marry in Italy

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Photo courtesy of Jessica Simpson via Twitter

Arrivederci, Italia! Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson have reportedly changed their minds about hosting their wedding in Capri, opting instead to hold the celebration closer to home in Los Angeles.

Although Capri is a meaningful spot for the couple — it was one of the first trips they took together — they realized it'd be "too much" to ask friends and family to fly to Europe for their wedding. A source revealed to Us Weekly that the couple decided a wedding in California will be "easier to plan" and "less expensive."

Best Man Saves Wedding Day After Couple is Robbed!

The best man's role is to plan the bachelor party, support the groom throughout the planning process, get fitted for a tux, hold the rings for safekeeping, sign the marriage license, give a toast at the reception and...save the day in the event of disaster? Cameron Scheuplein went above and beyond the call of duty for his niece, Christina Scheuplein, and her husband-to-be, Ray De Santiago. 

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Photo courtesy of KTLA-TV

KTLA-TV reports that Christina and Ray's home in La Puenta, California was burglarized last Saturday — just one week before their wedding was supposed to take place — along with seven others in their neighborhood. (The intruder slipped in through an open bathroom window while the couple was out.) The $6,000 they had stored to help pay for day-of expenses was gone. What made the situation even more dire was that Ray had lost his job just two months prior, so the newlyweds-to-be were already struggling to make ends meet.

Panic-stricken, they immediately went into crisis management mode and thought of ways they could slash costs. They were prepared to cut flowers from the event, have their friends man the bar and rush to get a relative ordained since they could no longer afford the officiant they had booked. But before they could do all of that, Cameron had one last-ditch idea that would change everything.

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