October 24th

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Perryfield Films

Tip of the Day: "Our best advice is to write personalized vows to one another. Repeat vows are great and traditional, but when a couple writes their own words, they can add more depth to their story. They can convey what their relationship means to them and what they have become," says Brian Perry from Perryfield Films.

"As filmmakers, the heartbeat of the wedding film is the ceremony. From the time that the hair and makeup artist arrives, to the very last song that the DJ plays, you're getting geared up for a 12 to 18-hour day. Somewhere, wedged in between this huge window of time is a 25-minute ceremony. The ceremony is what the day is about. Your guests came from all over to witness your vows, and they embody the commitment you are making to one another for the rest of your lives," he explains.

Plus, check out 30+ Examples of Wedding Vows.

October 23rd

Tip of the Day: Remember why you're getting married. "It is often easy to get wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of it all. Take a moment to look around at the people that mean the world to you and your partner, with whom you have chosen to spend the rest of your days with. The dresses, cake, flowers, food, and drinks have little importance on the success of your marriage. Because, let's be honest — in the end, love is all you need," says Vikki Marsee and Shannon Dexter from All You Need Is Love Events.

Plus, check out 10 Ways Your Wedding Prepares You for Marriage.

This Bouquet is a Gorgeous Tribute to Harry Potter

Instead of a traditional floral bouquet, bride Victoria Garcia decided to let her bouquet reflect her greatest literary love — Harry Potter. 

"While a wedding is all about the couple and two people coming together, I wanted to carry something that stood for me and me alone," she told HuffPost Weddings. "My husband Rey knows and accepts my love of Harry Potter! He thought that my idea [was] awesome."

October 22nd

Tip of the Day: When you’re planning your catering budget, factor in feeding your vendors! "This is something that is overlooked at many weddings. Making the vendors happy will ensure they will be at their best and shows your appreciation for their hard work," says Lou Lomibao from SnapKnot.com.

Arrange to have your photographer and videographer seated at a table close by so that they don't miss out on capturing spur-of-the-moment action (e.g. impromptu speeches, kisses, epic dance moves).

Plus, check out 30 Unexpected Costs Brides Forget to Budget For.

Ask the Experts: "How Do I Get My Disapproving In-Laws to Accept Me?"

Welcome to our second installment of "Ask the Experts," where our contributor team of wedding planners solves readers' most pressing wedding-planning dilemmas! This week, Regina Cialone from Cloud Nove Events and Amber Moltimore from Liz & Lex Events weigh in on a less-than-ideal in-laws situation. Have a question that you'd like to submit? Fill out this form, and we'll do our best to respond to your inquiry as soon as possible.

Q: "My mother-in-law and sister-in-law have never accepted me. They spoke badly about me and tore me down for three years, all the way up to the wedding day. They still won't accept me even though my spouse and I are married. I am tired of the depression and having to prove that I'm a good person to them. They have never gotten to know me and they probably never will. How do I cope with my feelings of rejection, pain and a broken heart? I just want them to like me." — BG reader Corinne

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October 21st

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Hannah Arista Photography

Tip of the Day: “If you’re having an outdoor wedding and the sun refuses to shine on the big day, all is not lost!” says photographer Hannah Arista from Hannah Arista Photography.

She says: “If the sun is being fickle, console yourself with the knowledge that the most gorgeous photographs are taken on overcast days with diffuse light.” Arista points out that the sun is high contrast and tends to be less flattering. “On an overcast day, colors will also be richer and more vibrant, and faces will be more open and natural — expressions won’t be marred by squinting eyes.”

Plus, check out How to Get Gorgeous Wedding Photos in the Rain.

October 20th

Suffering from post-wedding blues? You're not alone — psychotherapist and author Sharon Gilchrest O'Neill tells us that she's seeing more clients experiencing this than ever before thanks to the extreme nature of weddings these days.

"As much as every bride wants her day to be perfect, and have all the events flow without a glitch, acquiesce to reality a little. Promise yourself that the 'blips' will not get in your way of enjoying every moment." She adds: "There is a certain fantasy element in thinking about one's wedding. It's important to understand that when we have looked forward to something for so long, there will always be a little bit of a natural let-down, psychologically." Check out more of her tips at ashortguidetoahappymarriage.com.

Plus, find out how other brides Beat the Post-Wedding Blues.

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