I never get sick of telling the story of How I Found My Dress and How It Made Me Feel. Follow my journey to learn what to expect before you step into your bridal salon.

1. Bring at least one person who knows you EXTREMELY well and can read your facial expressions.

The first store I went to had about 10 dresses and they all looked horrendous on me. I panicked and my mind went into meltdown mode: What am I going to do? I hate everything in this shop! Oh my god, am I really that kind of a bride? The kind that hates everything? My maid of honor saved the day by Googling the nearest bridal shop and hightailing me out of there. She is Zen, in the form of a tall blonde girl. BG brides, when you're standing there in a big dress and random people in the store are “ohh-ing” and “ahh-ing” and all you want to do is take it off, you’ll need an honest, reliable companion to say, “I love it. But it’s just not you.”

2. You probably won’t buy the first dress you swear is The One.

When I walked into the Hobnob bridal boutique, I felt what it must be like to step into heaven. It was beautiful. White, ivory, and champagne-colored dresses floated around me everywhere. I told my lovely assistant Jac that we're having a vintage-styled wedding with a touch of modern (because Groomie can only handle THAT much vintage). I originally envisioned wearing this lace dress with a keyhole back, fishtail silhouette, no train, and a lace-trimmed veil:

Tia & Tamera, the new reality show chronicling the twins' lives as Tamera plans her wedding and Tia preps for a baby, premieres tonight at 9 EST on Style Network.

We got our hands on some pictures from Tamera's beautiful Napa wedding, which took place on May 15. We can't wait to see the behind-the-scenes of her planning with Mindy Weiss, one of our favorite celebrity wedding planners!

Photos by Jose Villa

The only thing better than getting a so-low-it's-sinful deal? FREE wedding merch. If you're still in the market for your dream dress, stop what you're doing and enter Simply Bridal's new dress-a-day giveaway, which runs today through September 8. Forgetful brides like myself will love this: Fill out your basic info once and you'll automatically be re-entered to win each day. Winners for each week will be announced on the Simply Bridal Facebook page each Saturday.

Simply Bridal is a customized-to-fit site, which means that they make each gown one at a time, as brides order them, so they're able to offer great discounts since they don't have to stock up on inventory or pay costs associated with a brick-and-mortar retailer. Their wedding gowns run in sizes 0 to 16, so no matter what your shape is, you're guaranteed to find a flattering style if you're one of the 32 lucky winners (check back this fall for more customized sizing options). 

Something old, something new, something borrowed… Here are some fun, unexpected alternatives to the traditional "something blue!"

A dark blue mascara, like DiorShow Waterproof in Azure Blue ($24.50, sephora.com) will add a playful, stay-put pop of color to your otherwise neutral wedding-day look. Dogeared’s ‘Something Blue’ bangle ($172, dogeared.com; in sterling silver or gold-dipped) is a thoughtful wedding gift and features three tiny hand-set sapphires, along with a sweet message inside the box. For the bold bride, these Kate Spade royal blue satin heels ($325, katespade.com) are adorable with a tea-length dress. Want to dress up your undergarments? Cosabella’s Shoreline thong and bandeau ($65 for thing, $53 for bandeau; bhldn.com), make for the perfect lingerie with a strapless gown. The lacy, retro-cut thong hides a tummy control panel, and the bandeau has side boning for extra support. And for the ultimate splurge you’ll wear again and again: Judith Leiber’s Fizzy clutch ($1,695, judithleiber.com), which comes with a cross-body chain.

—Samantha Dichter

We hosted a live Facebook chat where fans had the chance to submit their toughest fitness questions and get personalized feedback from workout guru Sue Fleming, the creator of the Buff Brides program. What we learned: No gym membership? Don't sweat it! All you need in order to work on the moves below are a swiss ball, a set of free weights, exercise bands, resistance tubes, and a good pair of sneakers.

Q1: "I'm wearing a strapless gown and am considering having the dress neckline altered to cover up the side-boob action. (You know, the little area right in front of the underarm.) Are there any particular moves I can focus on—other than just dropping my body fat percentage in general—to deal with that area?" —Brittany B.

A1: Sue Fleming: Push-ups are great to improve that area you're talking about. Try decline push-ups (your feet are on a bench, hands on floor) and incline push-ups (hands are on the bench, feet on floor) for an added boost!

Q2: "I've lost almost 40 lbs. but am struggling to lose the last 10-15 lbs., which is mostly in my thighs. Can you give me any helpful tips to minimize that area?"
—Jamie H.

TLC's hit series Four Weddings, where four brides with very different wedding styles compete to win a luxury honeymoon by attending and judging each other's weddings on the food, dress, venue, originality, and overall experience, returns tonight at 10 p.m. with a brand new episode.

Over the past few seasons, viewers have learned a ton about what will impress your guests, and as well as some surefire ways to irritate your nearest and dearest. Here, the top 10 mistakes we've seen:

Blunder #1: Not accounting for the temperature with an outdoor wedding.
Always put your guests' comfort first. This is even more important when having an outdoor wedding in the middle of July. Don't even think about having an outdoors-only affair if you can't hook up fans or, even better, air conditioning. If your guests are overheated, they're not going to be focusing on what's going on and will instead be preoccupied with their discomfort. Plus, you'll get a lot of early exits at your reception. People do not enjoy extreme temperatures, even if it is your special day.

This week, our real brides come together to share three confessions about their weddings. Tweet us @bridalguidemag with the hashtag "#realbrides" to share yours!

Hi BG brides! I know you're scratching your heads over my latest headline, wondering why I would put myself through the time, cost (and okay, I'll admit it, fun) of planning two large-scale events. Allow me to explain—Most Nigerians have two wedding ceremonies: a traditional ceremony and a ‘white-dress’ wedding ceremony the day after the traditional ceremony. Every bride and bride-to-be knows the stress of planning your wedding and reception. Now imagine doing it all twice. Picking out two sets of invites, picking out two menus, two venues, two bands/DJ’s, two everything! Planning both ceremonies had the potential to be easier but things that work for a regular wedding ceremony wouldn’t necessarily work for a traditional Nigerian ceremony. For example, people don’t RSVP, so I need a venue that can hold all the people we invite, same for food, same for beverages, etc.