March 21, 2012
On your personalized wedding website, let guests know about blocks of open time – such as ‘Saturday morning is yours to plan as you wish!’ – so that they can make plans to socialize with each other.
March 20, 2012
Leave some extra free time in your wedding weekend for visiting with friends who’ve come into town for your wedding. Having a free morning means you can meet them for brunch!
March 19, 2012
Go glam with your wedding day shoes, such as a glittery designer pair you’ll wear again in the future, rather than bridal white shoes you won’t get as much secondary use from.
March 18, 2012
Use those fun wedding-themed shoe-sole decals, such as I Do!, at your rehearsal if you love them but don’t want them on your wedding day shoes.
March 17, 2012
Plan a family-friendly wedding weekend outing such as a visit to a great, local zoo. This day trip is not just fun, it eliminates hosting-at-home party prep and cleanup.
March 16, 2012
One of the top unique locations for a rehearsal dinner or wedding is an estate house, with grand gardens and a Great Gatsby-esque feel.
March 15, 2012
Make your rehearsal dinner a celebrity-chic White Party, where all guests including you wear white and the room is set up in white décor (thanks, Kyle from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills!)
March 14, 2012
Save your personalized aisle runner for your first anniversary, or for future anniversary celebrations, even your wedding vow renewal party years from now.
March 13, 2012
Place a candy dish by your guest book! Offer unique treats like candied ginger, or go with traditional candied Almonds for a sweet surprise at sign-in!
March 12, 2012
Get some funky, fun nail art for your bachelorette’s party! Vivid patterns and metallic crackle designs are hot now, and this party is perfect for wilder nail designs.
March 11, 2012
Grooms say they want to get their brides little gifts during the planning, so let yours know that you’d love a pair of spa socks, a hand cream, a novel, just a little something fun.
March 10, 2012
Have your lighting effects change with your time of day – lighter shades for daytime and sultry oranges, hot pinks or purples for night hours.
March 9, 2012
LED lights don’t get hot, so they’re often chosen as safer lighting effects to place on table linens or by ice sculptures.
March 8, 2012
Chandeliers are a top reception décor trend, so either have your coordinator bring in chandeliers or decorate your site’s existing lighting fixtures.
March 7, 2012
Grooms are choosing a sentimental flower for their lapels…perhaps a flower special to his heritage or a story in his family history, like his grandmother’s rose garden.
March 6, 2012
If you love the look of extensions, choose a model and style you can unclip and wear again, perhaps on your honeymoon!
March 5, 2012
Put a song on your playlist for a special dance with your siblings. It doesn’t have to be a spotlight dance after your Dad-dance…it can just be a great song for later in the reception.
March 4, 2012
Avoid Second Dress Regret! Picking a colored dress could make you look like a wedding guest – not the bride – in your reception photos.
March 3, 2012
Send stylish print invites to your after-party guests, to give yourself another enjoyable experience in invitation-choosing!
March 2, 2012
Send pretty print invites for your morning-after breakfast…this is a fun, creative task that mom-hosts love to work on!
March 1, 2012
Know your reception site’s guaranteed minimum headcount as you make your guest list, and have a backup list ready to fill spots to meet the amount you’re paying for.
<< Previous: February 2012 [1]
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
February 29, 2012
Hand-written cards placed in guest welcome baskets impress so much more than computer-printout duplicates in all of your bags! So write out pretty notecards with messages of welcome and thanks, and make it easier by not putting guests’ names on each card.
February 28, 2012
The dessert bar is a big trend for the morning-after brunch! Fill your dessert buffet with mini-pastries, petit fours, mini cake pops, truffles, and little Chantilly-cream and fruit tartlets.
February 27, 2012
Wedding cakes are going ‘simple elegance’ with white-on-white icing pearls or swirls, or same-color sugar-paste cutouts, creating a monochromatic effect – for shower or reception!
February 26, 2012
DIY your ring pillow to match an element of your wedding dress, such as a lace pillow-cover made from the extra material of your ivory dress, or lots of sparkle glued or sewn on.
February 25, 2012
In addition to framed family wedding photos, also frame pretty text printouts of how each couple met, in their words. ‘He Said/She Said’ quotes are always touching.
February 24, 2012
A fresh orchid plant – in white, light or dark pink, even blue – is the new, ultra-pretty bridal shower guest table centerpiece…and a take-home prize that guests love to win.
February 23, 2012
Make décor items symbolic, such as glass vases filled with wild rice, grains, lentils or black-eyed peas for budget-smart, natural décor that also acts as a harbinger of abundance.
February 22, 2012
Scout your reception site for unexpected décor spots -- like fireplace mantels, windowsills, window boxes and bookshelves – where you can place extra florals and framed couple and family photos.
February 21, 2012
A brilliant extra take-home at the exit: a basket filled with bottles of personalized-label spring water, for guests to enjoy during their ride home.
February 20, 2012
Have a completely new guest table at your reception exit, holding the guest book, take-home snacks or favors, and a framed photo of the two of you holding a ‘Thank you for sharing our day!’ photo.
February 19, 2012
A new personalization trend for drinks: personalizing one choice to your bridesmaids, such as everyone’s favorite lemony shot, or personalizing a drink to your parents, such as their favorite sidecar or Tom Collins classics.
February 18, 2012
Choose signature drinks for your after-dinner drinks list, such as a creative Kahlua drink or a flavored coffee, such as the hazelnut flavor you sipped on your first date together.
February 17, 2012
A hot prospect at summertime outdoor weddings: having three different kinds of water on your wedding drinks list: citrus- or berry-infused tap, sparkling, or brand spring water.
February 16, 2012
Bar brilliance: featuring seasonal specials, such as a pumpkin martini or peppermint latte, on your drink menu. Also on the list: seasonal beers and microbrews with nutty fall or summer-light flavors.
February 15, 2012
A new drink personalization trend: telling your bar manager what your favorite candies are, and having your mixologists create signature drinks incorporating those candies! You could have sour candies in your Jack and Coke, or a Mounds® bar martini on the menu.
February 14, 2012
Arrange to have gourmet snacks, such as wasabi peas, banana chips, or flavored snack mix, set in pretty bowls on the bar for guests to pick on while waiting for their drinks.
February 13, 2012
If you’ll place scratch-off lottery tickets at guest table settings, be sure to place a ‘lucky penny’ with each one, to facilitate scratching!
February 12, 2012
A hot trend in tabletop décor for bridal showers and receptions: colorful, laser-cut placemats with intricate cut-out shapes and borders.
February 11, 2012
Be aware that some natural materials, such as leaves and moss that designers can use to make eco-friendly placemats, have a smell. Always ask to see, and smell, a sample before you order!
February 10, 2012
A hot décor trend: extending your tabletop color scheme into the glasses on the table, such as a cobalt-colored water goblet, or a very cool orange streak in your wine glass stems.
February 9, 2012
Shortly after you’re introduced into your reception room, after you’ve danced your first dances, take a moment or two to look around the room and take in every detail…from décor to guests’ happy faces. Those memories last forever.
February 8, 2012
Your reception’s 2nd-Look… in Jewelry: adding a dramatic piece of colored jewelry, such as big garnet earrings to match the deep red of your bouquet. That’s a fashionable photo op, too!
February 7, 2012
A hot dessert bar trend: the mousse bar. Line up an array of pretty glasses filled with chocolate, white chocolate, banana, coconut, lemon, berry and other kinds of mousses for a creamy, decadent dessert buffet.
February 6, 2012
A hot dessert bar trend: champagne flavors! From champagne-infused cupcake frosting to champagne-chocolate crème brulee, the bubbly is a bigtime taste for your dessert bar.
February 5, 2012
A hot dessert bar trend: the cake bar, comprised of a half dozen separate single-tier cakes! They can be all one flavor and color of frosting, with different cake flavors and fillings inside, or a pretty combo of frosting colors.
February 4, 2012
Make that jeweled bouquet trend happen by shopping at flea markets for 50-cent sparkling brooches.
February 3, 2012
Dress up for your gown dress shopping excursion! Wearing a cute dress and curling your hair puts you in a better, this-is-special mindframe than jeans and a ponytail.
February 2, 2012
Don’t count out a dress that looks odd on the hanger. Some of the prettiest dresses transform into fabulous when on the body, so don’t miss a winner!
February 1, 2012
Aisle runers are not just for the ceremony! Bring it to your reception site to lead into the entry, or lead into the reception room from the cocktail party.
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
January 31, 2012
I love this one! Set out a blank, square table card and a colored Sharpie at each guest table, and let guests name their own table!The table numbers remain, but guests can get creative, funny or sentimental with their own table names!
January 30, 2012
If you’ll have an evening wedding, arrange to visit your sites at night, to see how the grounds are lit up and how the ballroom is lit.
January 29, 2012
When you’re touring potential reception sites, don’t forget to check out the restrooms to assess their décor, style, cleanliness and working order.
January 28, 2012
Mix up the high and low centerpiece trend with high, medium and low to add even more visual drama to your budget-friendly décor.
January 27, 2012
Get more creative with bridal shower prizes – instead of the expected scented candle, give out unique truffles or boxes of chocolate-dipped strawberries, frosted cookies and other edibles.
January 26, 2012
A hot dessert bar trend: offer an entirely gluten-free desserts table!
January 25, 2012
If your parents are still married, surprise them by having the band or deejay play their wedding song as they’re introduced into the reception room.
January 24, 2012
Allow child attendants and junior bridesmaids and groomsmen to choose their own music for when they’re introduced into the reception room! Kids love getting a say!
January 23, 2012
Allow your parents to choose their own entry songs for when they’re introduced into the reception room.
January 22, 2012
Retro drinks are a new hot trend on bar menus – look up recipes for, or request, pink squirrels, sidecars, and Old Hollywood Trader Vic’s mai tais.
January 21, 2012
It’s okay etiquette-wise to write or call people directly to ask for their current address and confirm their guests’ names.
January 20, 2012
Offer a more inexpensive cigar station with boxes of fine cigars and cigar cutters; this lowers the price from the hand-rolled station.
January 19, 2012
Set out pretty, lidded glass apothecary jars filled with colorful beads, feathers, glass stones, sand or other budget-friendly theme décor.
January 18, 2012
Put extra care into wrapping your parents’ and bridal party gifts – ornate wrapping these special presents adds a lot of Wow Factor.
January 17, 2012
Chocolate rolls are the new truffle! These little tubes of dark chocolate have a creamy filling and are a unique dessert treat. Check out www.lilacchocolates.com [6] to see different flavors and stock up!
January 16, 2012
When you schedule your catering tasting, ask the chef to prepare different kinds of sauces for you to try on your entrees and for appetizers. Sensational sauce makes budget-friendly entrees better!
January 15, 2012
At your cocktail party, have your hummus hand-served in little phyllo cups with ruffled edges for a tasty bite that’s prettier than a big vat of hummus on a station.
January 14, 2012
A new trend in cocktail party stations: a pickle bar with lots of pickled veggies, hot pickles, sweet and half-sours.
January 13, 2012
Open your reception with an instrumental performance, such as the high energy of a trio of drummers – a new, hot trend at weddings and corporate parties.
January 12, 2012
Ice sculptures are back in for the cocktail party! Ask your site if they have an in-house ice sculptor, or who they hire, and check out that pro’s website to see samples.
January 11, 2012
In your bridal journal or binder, make notes about the products and services you didn’t get, and why…it’s fun to look back on those details later!
January 10, 2012
More brides and grooms are agreeing NOT to Tweet or post on Facebook during the honeymoon; it’s better to unplug from social media and just focus on each other.
January 9, 2012
If you’re thinking of getting hair extensions for your big day, ask your stylist about the limitations of the more budget-friendly synthetic brands…some can’t be curled with a curling iron.
January 8, 2012
The new trend in thank-you notes: portraits of the two of you on the front and back of the card.
January 7, 2012
Grooms on a budget are giving their brides fabulous, designer perfume, instead of pricy jewelry, as a wedding-day gift.
January 6, 2012
For your after-party’s new look, replace your tiara or veil with a pretty, feathery fascinator.
January 5, 2012
At your cocktail party, have your hummus hand-served in little phyllo cups with ruffled edges for a tasty bite that’s prettier than a big vat of hummus on a station.
January 4, 2012
For an outdoor wedding, sew little weights into the bottom hems of chuppah or trellis fabric drapings, so they don’t blow around in the breeze.
January 3, 2012
Put three extra stocking packages in your emergency bag…stockings often snag on your rings, so it’s best to be extra-prepared for replacements.
January 2, 2012
Everyone loves pie! Check out the hot dessert trend, including mini pies on a stick.
January 1, 2012
The new trend in thank-you notes: portraits of the two of you on the front and back of the card.
<< Previous: December 2011 [7]
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
December 30, 2011
For your after-party’s new look, replace your tiara or veil with a pretty, feathery fascinator.
December 29, 2011
Grooms on a budget are giving their brides fabulous, designer perfume, instead of pricy jewelry, as a wedding-day gift.
December 28, 2011
The new trend in thank-you notes: portraits of the two of you on the front and back of the card.
December 27, 2011
If you’re thinking of getting hair extensions for your big day, ask your stylist about the limitations of the more budget-friendly synthetic brands…some can’t be curled with a curling iron.
December 26, 2011
More brides and grooms are agreeing NOT to Tweet or post on Facebook during the honeymoon; it’s better to unplug from social media and just focus on each other.
December 25, 2011
In your bridal journal or binder, make notes about the products and services you didn’t get, and why…it’s fun to look back on those details later!
December 24, 2011
Ice sculptures are back in for the cocktail party! Ask your site if they have an in-house ice sculptor, or who they hire, and check out that pro’s website to see samples.
December 23, 2011
Open your reception with an instrumental performance, such as the high energy of a trio of drummers – a new, hot trend at weddings and corporate parties.
December 22, 2011
Put three extra stocking packages in your emergency bag…stockings often snag on your rings, so it’s best to be extra-prepared for replacements.
December 21, 2011
For an outdoor wedding, sew little weights into the bottom hems of chuppah or trellis fabric drapings, so they don’t blow around in the breeze.
December 20, 2011
A new must for guest welcome bags: little bags of popcorn for their in-room movie viewings.
December 19, 2011
When planning your ceremony, ask to hear the music the pianist, organist or choir will perform; don’t just choose songs from a list.
December 18, 2011
Everyone loves pie! Check out the hot dessert trend, including mini pies on a stick.
December 17, 2011
Keep the mystery! Don’t post every detail of your wedding plans on your Facebook page or Twitter. Guests will be so much more impressed when they’re surprised by all of your amazing wedding details.
December 16, 2011
If you have several hours’ delay between your ceremony and reception, post on your wedding website some nearby places where guests can gather.
December 15, 2011
Remember that guests often reach across their tables to hand off their table camera or to show pictures of their kids, so choose candles in hurricane lamps or votives (instead of tapers) to keep flames away from sleeves.
December 14, 2011
Ask your entertainer what ‘tricks’ he uses to get guests out on the dance floor. Asking everyone to join in for a ‘good luck’ dance right at the start is a smart strategy
December 13, 2011
Add to guest welcome baskets a $10 gift card to the hotel, so that they can pick up snacks, extra bottled water, sodas, coffee or essentials in the gift shop without spending their own money.
December 12, 2011
Don’t offer to pay for your bridesmaids’ dresses or travel expenses right off the bat! Wait until you see how your budget’s playing out before you make such a generous gesture.
December 11, 2011
If you have a lot of rhinestones and sparkle in your décor, you can dress up your cake with bling on real ribbons tied around each layer.
December 10, 2011
Instead of a messy Mess the Dress photo shoot, do something more refined and sentimental. Wear your gown and tux at the location where you had your first date, or in your family’s backyard.
December 9, 2011
At the rehearsal dinner, you and your groom can propose sweet or funny toasts to each other as a highlight of the event.
December 8, 2011
For your Mess the Dress shoot, choose a location that means a lot to you, such as on the football field where you went to high school.
December 7, 2011
Instead of a messy Mess the Dress photo shoot, do something more refined and sentimental. Wear your gown and tux at the location where you had your first date, or in your family’s backyard.
December 6, 2011
Coordinate your mom’s look with your dress in a subtle way, such as having a lace element on her dress if you have lace elements in yours.
December 5, 2011
Before the wedding day, have your groom practice ‘dipping’ you, so that you’re both comfortable with the angle and how to position yourselves for a graceful move.
December 4, 2011
Honor your bridal party members’ comfort levels when you ask them to dance into the room during their introductions. If anyone’s really uncomfortable, just have everyone make a normal entrance.
December 3, 2011
During the reception, spend a little extra time at your grandparents’ table; don’t just cruise by once…stop by to say hello again or ask them to dance.
December 2, 2011
Be sure to enter our current sweepstakes [8], and check back often to sign up for even more big prizes!
December 1, 2011
It’s wonderful when parents go table-to-table at the reception to greet all of the guests. Very classy!
<< Previous: November 2011 [9]
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
November 30, 2011
Be sure there are enough tables and enough seating for all of your guests at the cocktail party. Some sites say, 'Some guests will stand,' but everyone's more comfortable at tables.
November 29, 2011
Invite both sets of parents to meet at a fun, casual event – such as watching a football game at a sports bar – so that they can bond over their shared interest. This can be way more fun that the formal dinner at a restaurant.
November 28, 2011
Keep your copies of Bridal Guide with your wedding binder, wedding books and other items as a great keepsake collection you’ll look back on years from now.
November 27, 2011
Ask your wedding coordinator which time of day is best to reach her. They have lives outside of work, and you don’t want to call when she’s at her child’s sporting events, or during her rare downtime.
November 26, 2011
Be extra careful not to misspell names on the place cards! This is a task that some couples rush through, and guests do get offended.
November 25, 2011
On your personal wedding website, ask guests to post their song-list selections. You’ll get romantic ideas, and some funny ones, too!
November 24, 2011
During the reception, call or Skype any relative or friend who couldn’t attend due to illness, pregnancy, deployment or other situation.
November 23, 2011
Encourage your bridesmaids and moms to wear full-length body slimmer so that no one gets that ‘roll-down’ tire at their waist from a slimmer that’s supposed to stay up!
November 22, 2011
When you interview potential officiants, ask them to read to you as part of their "audition." You want to be sure they have a great speaking style.
November 21, 2011
You don't have to limit yourself to just two wedding colorsts. Now, brides are choosing three, four or five gorgeous hues for their wedding designs
November 20, 2011
A top new dessert trend: trifles! Choose these cake-and-cream desserts either as single-serve glasses, or as one big scoop-your-own trifle in a large glass bowl.
November 19, 2011
Give your mom her own one-time-use camera [10] so that she can capture great photos during her dress search and other wedding-related tasks like helping to choose flowers.
November 18, 2011
Don’t rule out colors you wouldn’t wear together, like blue and purple, or yellow and orange. In florals, these shades look lovely together!
November 17, 2011
For a beach or under-the-sea themed party, set out ocean blue one-time-use cameras [10] that coordinate with your décor and take great photos.
November 16, 2011
In addition to your labeled tip envelopes on the wedding day, have an extra cash supply on hand for unexpected tips you need to give out, or cabfare for tipsy guests.
November 15, 2011
If your site provides a personal assistant to help you dress, bring you champagne, and assist you, be sure to tip her as well.
November 14, 2011
A new trend for Moms’ dress choices: having a favorite celebrity’s style in mind and bringing red carpet photos to the bridal salon or department store.
November 13, 2011
No tip jars on the bar! Approach the bartender and ask that they be removed. The hosts take care of the tip, not the guests.
November 12, 2011
In addition to your emergency bag, bring a Hair Repair kit with a brush, hairpins, jeweled comb and hold spray in case you have to re-do your do on a windy or humid day.
November 11, 2011
Make your rehearsal dinner dress selection special by going to a department store or boutique that has a free personal stylist who can help you design your look on a budget.
November 10, 2011
For bridal showers and breakfasts, a hot style trend is decorative place mats in the party’s color theme. One hot trend is laser-cut placemats in thick, glossy stock that really packs a color pop.
November 9, 2011
If you decide to wear your dress at your after-party out on the town, you may get VIP treatment such as a great table with bottle service, a free round, and other perks.
November 8, 2011
Create a uniform décor look with matching silver or Lucite frame stands that you’ll find in the craft store at budget prices. These can hold table signs, photos and other display items.
November 7, 2011
If you’ll DIY chocolate-covered strawberries, be aware that refrigerating them can often make the chocolate layer turn white! See if a friend can make these right before the party so they look perfect.
November 6, 2011
The #1 item that guests love to find in their welcome baskets: home-baked chocolate chip cookies. Make them the day-before so that they’re super-fresh, and package them fully cooled in labeled bags or boxes.
November 5, 2011
Don’t worry if you hear that guests will be wearing the same color as your bridesmaids’ dresses; the styles will be different enough not to create a competitive effect.
November 4, 2011
When you’re being fitted for your gown, ask a friend to assess your ‘cleavage view’ from above. When taller guests are standing with you, will they get too much of a show at the top of your bodice?
November 3, 2011
When you’re trying on gowns, also try on coordinating boleros, jackets or wraps if you’re having a spring, outdoor, evening, beach, boat or fall/winter wedding. Ordering now can save money, and the dress may have a matching jacket style.
November 2, 2011
A new dessert bar trend: whoopie pies! In vanilla, chocolate, red velvet, lemon and other flavors, guests go wild for these sweet-filled treats.
November 1, 2011
Remove stress by setting ultra-early deadlines for your bridal party to deliver their payments, sizes and projects – three weeks prior to the actual deadline works very well.
<< Previous: October 2011 [11]
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
October 31, 2011
Remove stress by setting ultra-early deadlines for your bridal party to deliver their payments, sizes and projects – three weeks prior to the actual deadline works very well.
October 30, 2011
Aisle runners can be more affordable if you order a non-customized one, such as a pretty, unadorned lavender one (www.originalrunners.com [12].)
October 29, 2011
Avoid post-wedding photo regret by having a friend or relative organize family group photos, such as grandparents with all of their grandchildren, a shot of you and your siblings, and other specialty roundups.
October 28, 2011
Ask your site if your cocktail party can feature both indoor and outdoor cocktail party food stations and food service so that guests can mingle where they’d like and not miss a bite.
October 27, 2011
Vintage is in! One of the most unique décor items in this style is old manual typewriters within décor arrangements.
October 26, 2011
Add some softness to your romantic party with garlands made out of baby’s breath…the delicate look adds European garden charm to your décor.
October 25, 2011
The men can replace boutonnieres with ultra-debonair pocket squares in white for the groom and color for the groomsmen and dads.
October 24, 2011
For your second look at the reception, glam up your jewelry look by adding a dramatic, sparkly cuff bracelet or stacks of blinged-out bangles.
October 23, 2011
At a daytime formal wedding, the groom and his men will look appropriately formal in black or deep gray or navy suits that match. New shirts and matching ties are a must for this stylish budget-saver.
October 22, 2011
Specify stocking shade with bridesmaids so there’s not a distracting variation, and – a new issue! – also say whether or not they should wear stockings with backseams.
October 21, 2011
A big trend for spring and summer weddings: jewelry with feather accents, which can pair with any feather accents in your bouquet.
October 20, 2011
The cure for “Can I bring a date?” requests when you haven’t given +1s to some guests: just say, “We’re only giving +1s when we know and are friends with the date.”
October 19, 2011
Display a digital photo frame at your engagement party, bridal shower or rehearsal dinner to play a slideshow of your childhood and courtship photos.
October 18, 2011
If you have children you’d like to involve, let them help plan pre-wedding parties or the morning-after breakfast. They’ll be so proud when their idea is included!
October 17, 2011
Dads want to get involved too, no matter how much they’re paying. Ask them for song suggestions and let them take a look at the menu options, too.
October 16, 2011
Find ways to include the moms, such as inviting them to the cake tasting and floral design meeting, where they can pick out their own wristlets.
October 15, 2011
It’s cold and flu season now, so protect your health with lots of de-stressing and hand-washing. Wedding stress will dampen your immunity, and you don’t want to be down for the count as a sniffly mess. Increase your self-care now in sick-season.
October 14, 2011
This cool weather means more hot, creamy drinks at the coffee shop, so check the chain’s website for fat gram, calories and sugar content before you make that creamy drink your daily treat. It may be best as a rare treat.
October 13, 2011
Add lots of glass storage containers to your registry, in a variety of sizes with snap-on lids, to keep your married-life kitchen in organized style.
October 12, 2011
Don’t forget to register for cool-weather blankets and cozy throws in great materials. Guests love giving those often-used items as presents.
October 11, 2011
A top new gift for the parents: pretty e-reader cases and stands so that they can enjoy their leisure reading even more, or set up their reader with a recipe on the kitchen counter.
October 10, 2011
Add a line to your invitation response cards asking guests to suggest a song for your playlist…if you see lots of slow-dance songs, tell your entertainers to play more of those.
October 9, 2011
The #1 fall dessert taste: pumpkin. Use it in crème brulees, pies, cake pops, cupcakes, mousses and cookies.
October 8, 2011
A sweet new dessert bar trend: the chocolate mousse bar, with dark or white chocolate mousse, fudge or strawberry toppings, chocolate chips and crushed cookies, and whipped cream for a make-your-own dessert twist.
October 7, 2011
More bakers are offering a fresh replica of your wedding cake’s top layer, so you can eat a delicious new cake on your first anniversary, rather than gag down the freezer-burned one!
October 6, 2011
Looking for a low-budget activity for your out-of-town guests? Take them to a fall festival or family farm for walking through corn mazes, tractor rides, apple-picking and other autumn fun.
October 5, 2011
Fall means football season, so if you’re fans, design your rehearsal dinner like a tailgate party with fabulous grilled foods, sausage and pepper sandwiches, salads, and microbrew beers.
October 4, 2011
For fall weddings and fall pre-wedding parties, add soup shots to your menu: little tastes of lobster bisque, shrimp and corn bisque, clam chowder, and other hearty tastes are crowd-pleasers on a budget!
October 3, 2011
For fall weddings and pre-wedding parties, set up a hot cider bar in addition to a coffee bar.
October 2, 2011
Don’t forget to register for magazine subscriptions! In addition to Bridal Guide, sign up for foodie, travel, home décor, business and entertainment mags that come all through the year.
October 1, 2011
A top gift idea for parents: a book signed by the author. Check bookstores’ events calendars and your mom’s favorite author’s website for book tour stops to perhaps even take her to meet her favorite author!
<< Previous: September 2011 [13]
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
September 30, 2011
Engagement portraits are skyrocketing in popularity, and gives you and your photographer a chance to get to know each other’s style, so that you develop a relationship before the big day.
September 29, 2011
If you’re given heirloom non-diamond jewelry such as glass stone brooches, have those stones turned into new hair clips, pins or other wear-now and wear-again jewelry.
September 28, 2011
Did you know that you can have a high-quality silk reproduction of your centerpiece flowers made? Just take a photo of yours to a floral designer and you may have a pretty new floral décor piece for your home!
September 27, 2011
Always popular for the restroom amenity basket: lots of fabric tape and safety pins for wardrobe malfunctions, as well as little packets of stain remover.
September 26, 2011
A new trend in restroom amenity baskets: provide antacids for tummy upsets, and frame a note saying the bar has ginger ale!
September 25, 2011
Everyone loves cake, but they also love dessert options! Ice cream, mini cheesecake bites, and dessert shots are top dessert trends [16] for weddings and bridal showers!
September 24, 2011
During your gown fittings, do an arm movement test – swing your arms, lift them up as if dancing or hugging – any rubbing that happens now will turn into painful chafing during your big day!
September 23, 2011
Do a movement test in the corset you're shopping for - reach up, take deep breaths, keep it on for more than a few seconds to be sure it'll be comfortable enough under your gown.
September 22, 2011
Ask if your photography/videography company offers gift cards – you may be able to suggest that as your upcoming holiday gift wishlist to help you get an even better pro package!
September 21, 2011
Ask if your reception site will assign a ‘bride’s attendant’ to help you with your bustle, bring you drinks and food and more. And remember to tip her!
September 20, 2011
Send Thank-You Notes To Your Fabulous Vendors And E-Mail Them Images From Your Big Day – Wedding Pros Who Put A Lot Into Making You Happy Will Love Seeing Their Contributions..
September 19, 2011
Get Fashion, Flower, Gown and DIY Tips At Our Videos [17] Page!
September 18, 2011
A new dessert bar trend: the parfait bar. Not ice cream parfaits, but squares of pound cake, madeleines, puddings, fresh fruit slices and whipped cream for make-your-own delicious treat.
September 17, 2011
A fun and free plan for your non-racy bachelorette party: catching a TV marathon of your favorite show (Gilmore Girls, Beverly Hills 90210) – with snacks and drinks, of course – as your Girl Time get-together.
September 16, 2011
Looking for a fun favor idea under $5? Give your guests mild or spicy barbecue sauce in locally-made bottles. They could even break them out at the party!
September 15, 2011
Some officiants are now using e-readers during the ceremony, so be sure to ask about that! You might prefer a traditional book-reading in your wedding photos, since gadgets can age out quickly and look odd in your wedding photos years from now.
September 14, 2011
Serving Dishes Family-Style Is The New Trend At Rehearsal Dinners. Set Out Platters Of Ravioli In Different Flavors (Cheese, Spinach, Goat Cheese And Mushroom), A Big, Fresh Salad And Garlic Rolls For A Budget-Friendly, Crowd-Pleasing Sit-Down Meal.
September 13, 2011
Display fun photos of you with your friends at the bridal shower in digital photo frame [18] slideshows.
September 12, 2011
To add a charitable twist to your bridal shower, ask guests to bring donated items — children's books, pet supplies for the local animal shelter, even last season's accessories — in lieu of a traditional wishing well.
September 11, 2011
Lidded apothecary jars give a romantic touch to bridal shower centerpieces; fill them with colored stones, flower petals or even a single piece of costume jewelry on a bed of tulle.
September 10, 2011
Ask your florist to use unique greenery in your bouquet and other florals. Leatherleaf fern is boring, so mix it up with eucalyptus, banana leaves, and other great textures.
September 9, 2011
Create a fabulous soft drink menu, combining iced tea and lemonade, pomegranate soda and lemonade or an island blend of orange and pineapple juice. Guests love creative non-alcohol drinks, and it’s great on your budget.
September 8, 2011
Give your Mom her own page on your online wedding file-share program! Check out Microsoft OneNote’s free wedding template [19] that allows her to drop in photos and plans for the rehearsal dinner or breakfast, plus photos of her dress possibilities.
September 7, 2011
For an out-of-the-box bridesmaid's gift, consider charmed key chains, which they can attach to their purse or even their e-reader and always think of you.
September 6, 2011
Ask your site manager if the band or deejay music inside the ballroom can be piped to the outside areas where guests may wish to mingle or even dance under the stars.
September 5, 2011
A big trend in registries: signing on for top-notch air purifiers, especially if you or your groom have allergies.
September 4, 2011
Don’t forget to register for sets of guest towels and bed linens if you expect to have houseguests in the future; this is the time to sign on for them, and also get a percentage off in your Completion package.
September 3, 2011
If you discover that your guests’ hotel has a "Romantic Weekend Package" that’s close to your room block rate but offers a free breakfast and other perks, then add that info to your personal wedding website. Alert your OOT guests to the news by re-sending your URL.
September 2, 2011
Wedding guests love it when you arrange for more than one hotel block at two nearby hotels, so they can choose the chain and price that’s right for them.
September 1, 2011
Heirloom jewelry is a hot ticket, and a big budget-saver. If you have several necklaces or bracelets offered to you, wear one for the ceremony and a separate set at the reception for your Jewelry Look #2.
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
August 31, 2011
Even though guests may have GPS, it's still considered proper to enclose a printout of driving directions to your ceremony and reception locations.
August 30, 2011
For formal invitations, write the year as "two thousand eleven," not "two thousand and eleven."
August 29, 2011
Remember that wedding invitations should always be hand-addressed, not affixed with those auto-print stickers that can get smudged by the post office's heated processing machines.
august 28, 2011
Accent a v-neck gown or a wedding dress with an open back with a lariat necklace. You can choose clear beads for yourself and colored ones for your 'maids.
August 27, 2011
Both brides and bridesmaids can't go wrong with a simple, elegant dress accessorized with fabulous, trendy shoes that sparkle!
August 26, 2011
A simple but often forgotten detail: make sure your bridesmaids are all wearing the same shade of stockings. Nude, tan and deep tan will look mismatched at the ceremony lineup and in photos, so specify a specific hue to them.
August 25, 2011
A great way to involve a far-away friend, relative, mom or bridesmaid with the planning process is to have them suggest songs for your reception playlist—they'll love this fun task!
August 24, 2011
Don't plan everything too far in advance, or as the months go by, you may fall into the trap of second-guessing your decisions.
August 23, 2011
Check office supply stores for their remaining back-to-school sale items for your print projects, DIY crafts and more. You can often get $1 items and 20%-off coupons.
August 22, 2011
Will your pet be a part of your wedding? Make sure your pooch has a cool spot to hang out, a supply of fresh water, and pet-safe food and snacks. A volunteer can take your "baby" home after the ceremony so that you don't need to worry about them during the reception.
August 21, 2011
On the morning of the wedding, as you're all getting ready, play an iPod mix featuring song dedications to your bridesmaids.
August 20, 2011
Take the stress out of writing your thank-you notes by deciding on a set number you'll write together with your husband each night. Then celebrate with a treat afterwards!
August 19, 2011
Nerves make your mouth go dry, and that causes bad breath...not a good thing at your receiving line or while visiting guest tables. Don't forget to pop a few mints on the big day!
August 18, 2011
Write your groom a love letter today! He might be feeling lost in your "wedding tunnel-vision," so remind him that the best part of all is getting to marry him.
August 17, 2011
The crafting party is the new girls' get-together: invite the moms, maids and flower girls over to make your favors or other DIY tasks, then end with a great buffet or desserts and coffee.
August 16, 2011
More brides are choosing a great ladies' lunch or dinner over a bachelorette party, which helps keep expenses down for their bridesmaids.
August 15, 2011
Give your bridesmaids a "second look" for the reception by having them tie sparkly sashes around their waists, and make them a gift from you.
August 14, 2011
Catch up on our Tip of the Day [21] entries here, and send the link to your other engaged friends, your bridal party members and your parents so that they can get great tips and money-saving ideas, too.
August 13, 2011
Keep adding more things to your registry [22] throughout the months of your engagement so that guests have a nice variety of affordable items to give you...and you may even get a percentage off after the wedding!
August 12, 2011
A new trend is to wear a colorful dress to your rehearsal dinner, and save the white or ivory for the Big Day!
August 11, 2011
Charge your cell phone fully on the morning of your wedding, because you may be on it a lot to contact vendors, your coordinator, your groom and others.
August 10, 2011
An essential for your emergency bag: a stain-removal stick. Also put a few on a tray in the ladies' and men's rooms for guests to get drips and stains out of their dresses, shirts and ties.
August 9, 2011
Planning on having a specialty dessert bar, such as made-right-there Belgian waffles with ice cream? Ask your site manager if you can have two stations to avoid one enormous line of guests.
August 8, 2011
In place of a groom's cake, consider serving groom's cupcakes, cake pops, mousses, pie or station desserts such as S'mores.
August 7, 2011
Got Skype on your cell? If so, you may be able to Skype with far-off loved ones (such as a pregnant friend who couldn't travel for your day). They'll love that you took a moment to say hello.
August 6, 2011
During the reception, be sure to compliment your wedding coordinator and site manager in the moment. Things may be hectic, but they'll love seeing the happiness on your face right then and receiving their thank-you notes.
August 5, 2011
Insure your wedding bands before the wedding day! Have them appraised at a different store than where you bought them, and buy insurance to protect those precious rings.
August 4, 2011
Find ways to get your mom involved, even if you're paying for most or all of the wedding. A popular new trend is for moms to host the morning-of brunch, or for parents to host their own VIP-list after-party.
August 3, 2011
Enter lots of contests [23]! Use that bridal luck, and you could win a free honeymoon, dress, shoes and lots of other swag.
August 2, 2011
Put in for your vacation days at work way in advance, especially if your wedding will take place during peak summer months or holiday weekends.
August 1, 2011
At a beach or poolside wedding, set out waterproof one-time-use Sport Cameras from Kodak [24] on tables close to the water's edge for guests to use so they don't risk their own pricey cameras.
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
July 31, 2011
Even if parents are hosting the wedding, it's now okay to have the response cards sent to your address, so that you get the thrill of receiving them and keeping track of RSVPs.
July 30, 2011
If you have a few guest no-shows at your reception—hey, it happens!—instruct your site manager to offer those guests' gourmet meals to your wedding coordinator, photographer, videographer and DJ.
July 29, 2011
You don't need a seating chart at your cocktail party, but it's thoughtful to provide enough seating for all. Try including benches, oversized ottomans, bistro tables and high-backed chairs arranged in mingling circles.
July 28, 2011
All of your wedding vendors have to eat dinner, so ask your site manager about their options in vendor meals and choose something yummy for them to enjoy!
July 27, 2011
Before you add frozen daiquiris to your drinks menu, think about what it will be like to have the loud, whirring noise of a blender constantly going off in the background. That will be captured on your reception video!
July 26, 2011
A delicious idea for a cocktail hour station is lo mein. Make all of your guests happy by offering one meat choice, such as chicken lo mein, plus a veggie lo mein.
July 25, 2011
At a hot summertime outdoor wedding, treat guests to cool refreshers such as lemonade spritzers and cold, fresh fruit "appetizers" hand-passed by servers.
July 24, 2011
Plan to bring a wad of cash to your wedding morning beauty appointments, so that you can tip all of your group's stylists and shampoo experts.
July 23, 2011
No tip jars on the bar! If you see one sitting out, feel free to ask the bartender to remove it. Tips are taken care of by the hosts, not by the guests.
July 22, 2011
Your cake's frosting colors will really pop if you choose cake table linens in the same color; there's no rule saying that the tablecloth has to be white!
July 21, 2011
Be sure to position your gift table far from the reception hall exit, to avoid any thieves from popping in to steal your presents.
July 20, 2011
It's time for a date night! Step out of wedding planning mode and get into romance mode by asking your groom out on a date...no wedding talk allowed!
July 19, 2011
Shorter veils are not only in style, but also can help you avoid the "disaster snag" when your veil gets caught on your rings before or during the wedding.
July 18, 2011
Add some color and texture to your tabletops by sprinkling seafoam-blue or green sea glass around your centerpieces, a natural alternative to confetti.
July 17, 2011
Take photos at each of your gown-shopping stops, remembering that all the gowns you don't pick lead you to The One. And it's fun to look back later on the styles that could have been...
July 16, 2011
Protect pets' feet at outdoor weddings by outfitting them in cute booties to guard against super-hot beach sand or pavement, and have them practice wearing them before the big day.
July 15, 2011
Ask your bridesmaids which time of day works best for attending planning meetings. Are they able to do mornings? Weekday evenings? Sundays? Bridesmaids who have kids say they especially appreciate having some say in scheduling.
July 14, 2011
Check your passport right now to be sure it doesn't expire before or during your honeymoon. Renew, if you need to, by visiting the travel.state.gov [26] website.
July 13, 2011
A fun gift idea for your bridesmaids is colorful bangles in stacks of coral, aquamarine or another design — they'll wear them again and again.
July 12, 2011
Your ride doesn't have to be a classic white or black car. Look into renting a hot pink convertible or a lipstick red classic car to make an eye-catching entrance and great photos.
July 11, 2011
A hot trend in bridesmaid beauty gifts is professional eyebrow shaping. A great pro shaping gives your girls an instant makeover and is an indulgence they may not get for themselves.
July 10, 2011
Allow some down time in your wedding weekend for guests to enjoy on their own. Plan a few cocktail parties and events, of course, but give guests a chance to chill out and visit with each other, too.
July 9, 2011
Before you book your vendors, ask if they perform at outdoor weddings. Some experts make it a rule to avoid hot, humid days, and some protect their equipment by staying out of the sun. Make sure you look into this before signing any contracts.
July 8, 2011
Put 5% or 10% of your wedding gift money into savings now, so that you can start off your marriage with a nice starter fund — make room in your budget and consider this an essential investment.
July 7, 2011
Register for lots of matching photo frames, including large 16"x20" ones, which you may need later when you add honeymoon photos or artwork to your home décor.
July 6, 2011
Check out the surprising variety of succulent plants, which are a great addition to your summer wedding décor. Many are more floral than aloe-looking.
July 5, 2011
Incorporate the popular summer shades of slate and gray-blue into your décor by displaying stones and gravel in glass vases as table centerpieces. Surround a tall vase with a few low-set ones in matching stone shades and sizes, interspersed with votives.
July 4, 2011
Give your parents their own spotlight dance at the reception, and let them pick their own song and dance style. Parents love having their moment to shine!
July 3, 2011
A little garland secret: if you plan on hanging them high, such as from rafters or along balcony railings or tent ceilings, make them bigger so they create more of an effect.
July 2, 2011
Have extra one-time-use cameras? Set them out on the bar so guests can snap great toasting photos.
July 1, 2011
Add lush, natural greenery to your décor with greens-only garlands featuring different kinds of green textures, from ivy to broadleaf to evergreen to big banana leaves.
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For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
June 30, 2011
Design or make themed card boxes to set out at the engagement party, shower and wedding. Some popular designs include tiered hearts, a wedding cake, shopping bags, jewelry boxes and more. Visit www.creativecustomcardboxes.com [27] for more ideas.
June 29, 2011
If your wedding is outdoors, provide several types of sunscreen lotions and sprays in the restroom pampering basket for your guests to use, along with breath mints and other essentials.
June 28, 2011
For your summer wedding, create a water bar. Set out pitchers of ice cold spring water along with stylish glasses and tong-served fruit slices, berries, mint and fruit spears.
June 27, 2011
Make sure you book extra valets so that guests aren't waiting in a long, frustrating line at the end of your reception — it's worth the expense.
June 26, 2011
If guests make desserts or dishes for your engagement party, shower or other party, label them with cute signs that say the name of the cook.
June 25, 2011
Can't find a place for cultural menu items? Serve them at your after-party! Guests will love late-night souvlaki, pierogies and other tasty treats.
June 24, 2011
The salad course is back! Gourmet it up with goat cheese, watercress, champagne vinaigrette, pine nuts and other add-ins that guests don't get all the time.
June 23, 2011
For an outdoor wedding, don't display the cake outside, or gnats and bees might swarm it and get stuck in the frosting. Keep it cool indoors, then wheel it out at cutting time.
June 22, 2011
Create a second wine list for the dessert hour at your reception, serving fabulous dessert wines to pair with your sweets.
June 21, 2011
'No gifts, please' bridal showers work much better when you make them 'donation' showers, asking guests to bring jackets, canned foods, kids' books and more. Guests enjoy bringing something, and this is a do-good idea.
June 20, 2011
Add cookbooks and magazine subscriptions to your bridal registry — these are gifts that keep on giving.
June 19, 2011
Don't let cranky bridesmaids or snappy moms-in-law get you down. Everyone has drama going on in their lives, and it might have nothing to do with you. Just smile and focus on what makes you happy!
June 18, 2011
Grooms say they love positive feedback. "This isn't my world," says one groom. "But I want to do all the right things to make my bride happy." Don't forget in this hectic time to simply say, "Great job, honey!"
June 17, 2011
Child attendants need practice! Some sites don't allow you to rehearse the night before your ceremony, and it's becoming a trend to skip the rehearsal. But make sure you walk the kids through what they're expected to do so that they don't panic or freeze.
June 16, 2011
Electronics are the new MUST for bridal registries. Sign on for a hot new digital camera or camcorder [28] to use on your honeymoon (they also make great group-share gifts that more bridal parties are giving now).
June 15, 2011
Make it a rule to respond to e-mailed questions from your bridal party or vendors within 24 hours, tops. Flag their e-mails for your follow-up so you keep all of your plans on track.
Yellow is IN! This sunshine shade can be incorporated into your shower or wedding plans as the main hue, or as a bright accent for neutral décor. A popular trend right now is combining gray/slate with yellow and a tiny hint of black.
When designing your bouquet, make sure to ask about its weight. Many larger bouquets filled with blooms can weigh a lot, which may cause your arms to shake as you pose for photos. Ask to hold a sample bouquet for feel before you sign the contract on your order.
Borrow Princess Catherine's regal reception look by wearing a sparkly belt. Try on thin belts and thick ones to find the width that works best with your gown style and shape.
For your second look at the reception, try adding a colored headband with a bit of sparkle in it. You might wear a pastel headband to match your flowers, or go bright with one that is sunshine yellow. A sexy red headband is perfect for late-night partying.
For a light, elegant dessert, treat your wedding guests to Napoleons—also known as mille-feuille—flaky French pastries filled with a rich cream. Keep things classic and simple with a plain cream filling, or try adding creative flavors and swirled designs on top.
Don’t forget to register for several serving trays for your home entertaining and holiday-hosting in the future. Trays are one of the most-forgotten items in a gift registry!
Look at tablecloths and runners that have a bit of shimmer in the fabric. This catches the room’s light and candlelight, creating a magical, yet subtle sparkle effect.
Ask your gown stylist or seamstress to make your train detachable if you don’t like the bustle look or feel; with secure hooks, it can be done!
Do a wedding shoe test before walking in them on your big day. For comfort, yes, but also to see if your slip-ons make those awful heel-slapping noises while you walk (strappies can solve the problem).
Summer flower of the month: kalanchoe! These little star-shaped flowers in bright colors make great bud vase florals, accents to larger centerpiece arrangements and bouquet ‘pops.’
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
The latest trend for favors is to ask valets to leave the trinkets in guests' cars as they exit your reception. Skip it if it’s a hot or humid day, to avoid wilted flowers, melted chocolate or red-hot wine bottle stoppers!
One-time-use cameras [30] are always a hit at engagement parties. Guests might not think to bring their digitals to your soirée, so hook them up with cameras and get those priceless photos at the start of your wedding season.
Ask your site manager about where you can store you and your bridesmaids' handbags and other personal possessions during the reception, for security reasons. If you don't have access to a bridal suite, they could lock them in an office or store them in a safe.
Ice platters are a fun DIY activity for your bridal shower, so practice freezing water in shapes with add-in berries, mint and other accents before the big day.
Believe it or not, guests actually prefer formal seating arrangements at wedding receptions, so don’t skip this step and leave them uncomfortably scrambling for seats!
Save money on your bar tab by loading up on fabulous non-alcoholic drinks like pomegranate iced tea, organic sodas, and punches.
Send your save the dates way in advance if you’re planning a destination wedding or your wedding date is during peak vacation season. Guests will appreciate having about six months of advance notice so that they can plan their trip accordingly.
Don’t let too much time pass before sending your bridal shower thank-you notes. One week is ideal, two weeks is acceptable and three weeks is a stretch.
Send your bridesmaids to the Bridal Guide [14] bridesmaids section [14], where they’ll find timelines and tips just for them!
Be cognizant of the fact that cameras are everywhere at your wedding, shooting in from different angles. If you have to bend down to fix your shoe or pick something up from the floor, use one hand to cover your cleavage.
Pack lots of fabric tape in your emergency bag, just in case you need to keep your straps in place or fix a fallen hem.
When it comes to gifts, bridesmaids say they love receiving fashion-related items from the bride. Pashminas are a top gift pick, since they're so versatile. Go with a light, neutral color in spring and summer, and darker tones (like brown, black or deep cranberry) if you're having a fall or winter wedding.
In order to get a wide variety of wedding photos from your guests, place disposable cameras with instruction cards on each table. You can request that one group take photos of the centerpiece, another shoots snapshots of the cake, another handles florals, and so forth.
Be sure to spend time with your flowergirls and other young girls you've invited during the reception…to them, you’re a princess, and they love getting attention from you!
Begin your eyebrow regimen now: get them shaped by a pro and ask the aesthetician for advice on growing out your brows to their prettiest shape and fullness.
If you and your fiancé are a jetset couple, ask guests to write notes to you on individual cards, along with their suggestions for locales to visit in your future together, instead of having a regular guestbook. Hang up a sign that explains this request to guests.
Buy your mother and/or bridesmaids a fabulous handbag as a thank-you gift. It doesn't have to be from a pricey designer—search for one that has sturdy straps and just looks luxe.
Give your rehearsal dinner a theme! It can be inspired by a color, a locale (such as Tuscany), pop culture (you could throw a Mad Men shindig)—anything you’d like.
If you’ll have rose petals scattered on your aisle, pre-arrange for a friend to pick up a handful of them for you to dry and save as keepsakes.
Before you order flower petals for your flowergirl to scatter during your ceremony, be sure to ask your ceremony site manager if they allow this tradition! Some sites forbid petal-throwing for safety and cleanup reasons.
Use a special guest’s modest wedding gift to get your marriage license…they will love knowing their gift was the most important of all.
Start practicing your penmanship with a calligraphy pen from the office supply store so that you can write out your own elegant place cards, and send beautiful thank-you notes.
Give seniors at your wedding the chance to bring a guest, even if they’re widowed or longtime singles. They’ll appreciate the optionof bringing a date or their aide to keep them company.
If you want to amp up the entertainment at your wedding, hire a dance troupe (like on America’s Best Dance Crew), to come in and rock the dance floor for a number or two.
Add a twist to your flavored coffees by pairing them with desserts, such as serving a hazelnut coffee with hazelnut cream tarts.
A big dessert trend, even for formal weddings: an Italian ice station with lots of fabulous flavors, from lemon to mango to strawberry and grape.
At any type of brunch celebration, whether it’s your bridal shower or reception, offer a Bloody Mary bar with lots of fixins like celery stalks and Tabasco sauce for extra kick.
Serve bubbly on the cheap! Try Prosecco or Spanish cava instead of pricier champagne.
Save paper (and money!) by designing your wedding program as a single-panel card with printed text on both sides.
The newest hors d’oeuvres trend: crab cakes, cod cakes, salmon cakes and shrimp cakes, with mild and spicy cocktail dipping sauces.
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
When you're scouting potential venues, ask the sales coordinator if you can look in on a real wedding reception. When you attend, dress up nicely so that you and your fiancé look like guests, even if you’re just standing in the doorway.
If you’re having an island destination wedding, give guests underwater one-time-use cameras from Kodak for their snorkeling fun. Imagine all of the great photos you'll get to add to your wedding collection!
Give your emcee the names of your bridal party members and parents written phonetically so that no one’s name is butchered when they're introduced into the room.
Get a professional brow shaping to instantly brighten your eyes! Choose a pro who can assess your face and determine the perfect shape for you.
Save your bridesmaids a big expense by asking them to wear elegant ponytails instead of pricey updos.
On the morning of the wedding, as you're all getting ready, play an iPod mix featuring song dedications to your bridesmaids.
During your wedding-planning process, keep a journal about all of the fun adventures you take with your mom along the way—even if it's just a few tasks—and give it to her at the rehearsal dinner as a keepsake.
A fabulous thank-you gift for parents is a fine bottle of wine or champagne with a note for them to enjoy a romantic evening or celebration of their own.
Make your engagement party a charitable event! In lieu of gifts, ask guests to bring non-perishable items for a local food pantry, pet supplies and toys for an animal shelter, or donations for some other cause of your choice.
Don't skimp on your table linens, since this is a detail that guests touch and see up-close. Always ask to feel the actual napkins in your site's supply.
Use tassels—a fashion accessory trend for spring—in your wedding decor, such as on table runners, seat cover ties, centerpiece accents, and more.
Love the idea of changing into a second dress for your reception? Try selecting a gown that has color, which is one of the biggest bridal trends right now—we spotted mint green at bridal market, and Reese Witherspoon just wore blush pink to her second wedding!
When you're trying on gowns, ask to have each dress contender bustled so that you can test your movement, practice sitting, and see what it will look like from the back.
Don't skimp on hiring bartenders—it's not a smart way to save, since guests would hate standing in a long line at the bar.
Get creative with your groom's cake! Try using cake pops, liquor-infused cupcakes, pastries, or a dessert from his cultural background.
Don't over-cinch your bodice or wear a too-tight corset trying to achieve a slim-waist silhouette. Being able to move around comfortably is essential—you want to be able to dance the night away with all of your loved ones until the very end of your reception!
Your table centerpieces don't have to be identical. Mix up sizes and heights around the room to give visual impact and also save on your floral budget.
Seat your bridal party members (and their dates) at tables with their own groups of friends and relatives; you don't have to put your bridal party at one table.
If you or your fiance's parents are divorced or don't get along with each other, take the stress out of seating by creating three or four separate tables for them, which will keep everyone a safe and happy distance from one another.
Build a kitchen cookbook library by registering at sites like amazon.com [32], bedbathandbeyond.com [33], williamssonoma.com [34] and more. They'll help you develop a repertoire of healthy, home-cooked dishes you and your hubby will love.
Register for healthy cooking items like veggie and rice steamers, a julienne peeler and a wok to avoid gaining "The Newlywed 19."
Add fitness items such as yoga gear, hand weights, and more to your bridal registry to live a long and healthy life together.
If you're a DIY bride, get intricately-printed origami paper at the craft store — the designs are amazing!
When it comes to serving late-night reception fare, you can never go wrong with a crêpe station — guests can choose sweet fillings like chocolate and fruit, or even savory options like veggies, cheese, and onions.
Add some humor to your save-the-dates by featuring a silly photo of you and your fiancé carrying signs, wearing wacky sunglasses or posing in your college team shirts.
Instead of printing just you and your fiancé's names and wedding date on cocktail napkins, get creative with a meaningful quote or sketch. That way, you'll get to use the leftovers in the future!
Most brides-to-be tend to save important lists like guest RSVPs on their laptop. Print out a hard copy of these spreadsheets and save them on your hard drive or in Google Docs, just in case your computer crashes.
Honeymooning in a tropical island? Don't forget to pack an underwater one-time-use sport camera, or invest in a digital one to document future trips.
Take the stress out of writing your thank-you notes by deciding on a set number you'll write together with your husband each night. Then celebrate with a treat afterwards!
One way to thank your parents for all of their hard work helping you plan your wedding is to give them their own professional photo album. They can browse through your online proofs, pick their favorite shots, and work with your photographer to create a traditional or modern scrapbook-style layout.
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [2], read more about her [3], or visit sharonnaylor.net [4] and get to know this bridal guru better!
Brides and grooms are bringing back the receiving line, but keeping it shorter — including just themselves and their parents, not the bridal party. This keeps the line moving, eliminates that rushed feeling, and lets the bridal party mingle. The receiving line is usually formed right after the ceremony or at the beginning of the reception.
Create a plan for table visits on the day of your wedding. It's important to make guests feel appreciated and to stop by each table to greet them, so visit a few tables after the first few dances, some more during dinner, and so forth.
Balance out pasta, meat-carving stations and other filling fare by setting up a veggie corner at your cocktail party. Guests can feast on stuffed mushrooms, artichokes, endive, and more.
Save a bundle on your reception entrees by pairing a basic protein like chicken or pork with a gourmet sauce, such as vodka cream or a cherry glaze.
For a twist on a traditional intermezzo, give guests their choice of lemon, orange, lime, coconut, or even passionfruit sorbet as the palate-cleansing formal course.
Add elegance to your sit-down dinner with a cheese course. Work with your caterer to select artisan cheeses and pair them with your favorite wines.
One new late-night snack trend is the kettlecorn bar, where guests can treat themselves to different varieties of this sweet-and-salty classic. Flavors can include everything from chocolate to jalapeño spice.
Clearly label cupcakes or other desserts that contain liquor and place them on a stand that's higher to reach, so that children in attendance won't grab them by mistake.
Skip the fondant and order a standard flavored cake to cut costs. For a fun twist, supplement the cake with gourmet cupcakes in sophisticated flavors, such as espresso and champagne.
Don't plan for more than an hour between your ceremony and the start of your cocktail party. When you delay more than that, many guests will choose to skip your ceremony altogether.
Spend the extra money to have the servers at each station for your cocktail party or buffets, so that your menu items look neat, not picked-over and so that trays can be kept impressively stocked.
For an outdoor wedding in any season, be sure to rent portable heating units to give guest a comfy source of warmth
On the morning of the wedding, Skype with far-away friends and family who couldn't attend, just to say hello!
Pay close attention to your site's guaranteed minimum headcount stated when you sign the contract. Go conservative with this number, since you will have to pay for that many guests no matter how many "yes" RSVPs you get.
Place one-time use cameras, like this pretty, white floral one from Kodak [36], by the guest book so that family and friends can take silly pictures while waiting for their turn to sign.
If any guests cancel on your reception—and pros estimate three percent will cancel—have those guest meals you already paid for served to your wedding pros like your coordinator, photographer, DJ and videographer.
After you're dressed for the wedding, work with your photographer to find out if your "good side" if your right or left, depending on how you're wearing your hair and what kind of headpiece you've chosen.
Place fun props by your photo both for guests to use in their playful pictures—go to the dollar store and stock up on boas, bead necklaces, hair clips and funky sunglasses.
Make pretty signs for your wedding's locales, such as directional notes printed in romantic script on colorful backgrounds with your monogram on top.
A brunch reception is the latest trend in weddings, not only because it's friendly on the budget, but also because you can showcase an impressive array of delicacies!
Set up a Bloody-Mary bar at brunches and afternoon parties, and include lots of gourmet add-ins and fun garnishes.
Borrow a décor tip from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Kyle's White Party, and float glowing light-filled spheres in a swimming pool or foundation for chic accents and lighting effects.
For dessert, set out a big platter of whoopee pies—the hottest new sweet treat that can be made in vanilla, chocolate, red velvet and more!
Serve lots of colorful non-alcoholic drinks like punches, virgin sangrias and iced teas to impress guests and save on your beverage budget.
Theme your cocktail party to make it stand out with color or a cultural flair.
Polka dots are hot this season, so borrow from the fashion runways to polka-dot shower invitations, your personal wedding website, place cards and more.
Flowergirls can wear inexpensive yet stylish headbands with a floral accent on the side that'll save you money from the traditional garland. Plus, this can be your gift to her too!
Serve colorful champagne cocktails—just mix the alcohol with a splash of fruit juice—to successfully stretch your liquor budget in style.
Another way to decorate your wedding with romantic quotes? Place lettered wood signs around the guests tables or buffet, then take them home to become your house decor after the wedding.
Decorate your wedding with romantic quotes by framing your favorites and placing them on guest tables. The best site to do your research? QuotesGarden.com [37].
Instead of numbering guest tables, "name" each one with your favorite cities, songs, or any other topic that your family and friends know is close to your own heart.
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If you make a donation to charity in lieu of wedding favors, design a pretty framed announcement that features the image and logo of your designated charity of choice.
Another reason to add some more gifts to your registry list right now: Guests want to see a variety of gift options that fit their budget, so the more options you give them, the better!
Add some mor gifts to your registry lists! If your chosen registry has a completion program, you'll get a discount on whatever remains on your list after your wedding.
Pay attention to last-minute guest cancellations and how they'll affect your seating chart. Fill out new placecards to move the two remaining guests at one table to another table that has room for them.
Add a few extra feet between tables in your reception layout plan, to give guests plenty of room to get to the dance floor without knocking into other guests' chairs.
Ignore drama queens who try to get attention at your wedding. They'll only make fools of themselves, while you remain happy and carefree, not giving them a split-second of your attention or time.
Pay lots of attention to your flowergirls! Dance with them, sit with them, talk with them. To the girls, you're like a princess and they'll love you for focusing on them!
Dance with lots of special relatives and freinds, not just with your new hubby. It makes their day, and gives your great memories and photos to enjoy for years.
Instead of those prom-like guest table posed shots, ask your photog to invite guests to pose for their own family portraits and romantic couple photos that they can order from your online picture site.
Ask your photographer to take lots of photos of the food on your cocktail party displays. You'll be busy greeting guests and taking photos, so even ify ou do get to take a few bites, you won't see all of the fine presentation displays right then.
Plan a celebratory lunch for after your visit to town hall to apply for your marriage license. It's a big deal! So don't treat it like an everyday errand.
Be open to house-brand wines and liquors, asking for a tasting of each when you go for your catering meetings. Today's wonderful reception sites now stock great-quality vintages for their house brands, and you'll save lots of money.
Champagne toasts are so in right now! This time around, though, it's all about adding color. Have your reception site place champagne glasses—with a splash of cranberry juice—at each guest's place setting.
Explore the idea of working with carnation flowers in your wedding décor. Today's varieties are bright and beautifully textured, not cheap looking!
A great gift for your groom: tell him (in a hand-written note) what you love about his family. Every groom wants you all to get along, so this is a fabulous present for him, especially if you've clashed with his mom over wedding plans!
Keep romance at the top of your priority list! Write your groom a love note, give him a relaxing foot massage when you're watching televsion, or give him a compliment you've never given him before.
Valentine's Day dinner can take a chunk out of your wallet, so propose to your groom that you go out the night BEFORE the holiday to the swankiest restaurant in town, thus avoiding a $100-per-person holiday minimum. The money you save can be spent on a honeymoon excursion!
Valentine's Day is coming! Make an agreement with your sweetie that he can get you flowers after the holiday to avoid those pricy markups.
Find out where your diamonds are from—or even buy raw, organic stones if possible. One hot property for ethically-mined diamonds right now is Canada, so search for vendors from our neighbors up north.
Think about getting wedding bands that are made of recycled precious metals (these are platinum). It takes over 20 tons of ore to make one new ring, so you'll be reducing your own carbon footprint by making this choice too.
Follow Kate Middleton's lead by using sapphire-hued crystals in yourcenterpiece decor. The gemstones are sure to make a fancy splash!
Change your look throughout your wedding celebration by swapping out a rhinestone belt for a simple satin sash (or vice versa). Keep your ceremony look demure while having fun with your reception style!
Have several of you wedding invitations profesionally-framed as gifts to your parents and grandparents, and also as a fabulous home decor item for yourselves.
If you're displaying framed family photos at your reception, pair them with small, framed cards sharing information on who's in the picture and the year in which it was taken.
Display framed family photos at your rehearsal dinner for close relatives to see and enjoy in a more casual setting. , pair them with small,
Impress guests by placing a hand-written note from you in their welcome bags. They've come a long way to be with you; a printed-out note isn't personal enough.
Arrange for welcome bags to be pre-placed in their hotel rooms as surprises awaiting them, not another bag to lug upstairs with their suitcases.
Go green with your guests' welcome bags by placing goodies in resuable totes, such as these stylish pieces from Envirosax [39].
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Put your last names on your save the dates. It's a "don't" to just put your first names, since guests may know several people with your first names. Cut the confusion!
Check with your credit card companies to be sure that your points and rewards plans are perfectly suited to your spending, and perhaps tweak your rewards to get upgrades and other honeymoon perks.
Set out disposable cameras in your wedding colors—we love the floral ones from Kodak [41]—at your wedding-morning breakfast to capture fun getting-reading and champagne-toasting moments.
Create fabulous toiletry baskets for both the ladies' and men's rooms. Fill it with goodies like fabric tape, dentral floss picks, mints, emery boards, and other emergency-type essentials.
If your budget won't allow for an outdoor wedding reception as you would have wanted, have an al fresco rehearsal dinner or wedding-morning breakfast to make your dream come true.
Ask someone to wash and wax your car (and the parents' cars) before the wedding weekend so that rides to weekend parties and events, as well as guest pickups, are done in a shiny, clean car.
If you're having an outdoor ceremony anywhere (i.e. not just on the beach with waves crashing), set up a sound system so that guests can hear your beautiful vows and other elements of your ceremony.
Skip the frozen or blended cocktails at your reception. Not only can they be pricier, but the constant noise will get a bit annoying!
Dress up your drinks! Ask your bar manager about unique stirrers, berries or candies that can be dropped into martinis, or try colorful sugar rims on regular (not frozen!) margaritas.
If you'll be having children at your wedding, plan for a specialty kids-only dessert bar that's sure to please. Think sundaes, brownies, cookies and cupcakes. (Adults will love 'em too!)
Keep all of those photos of gowns, cakes bouquets and other details that you considered during planning, even if you didn't ultimately choose those options. They're great keepsakes!
Don't forget to take a spritz or two of breath spray (like this odor-busting Binaca [42]) for a fresher mouth while you're greeting and dancing with guests.
Have your groom keep a tiny breath spray in his pocket for you both to use immediately after the ceremony and before the receiving line—being nervous tends to dry out your mouth, which could give you some funky breath!
Keep careful records of who gave which gifts for all wedding parties, even the recpetion—it's essential for detailed thank-you notes and also serves as a reminder of what people gave when it's their turn to marry.
When you're considering flowergirl and ring bearer outfits, go for comfort, skipping itchy lace collars and stiff fabrics that can get kids fidgety—and cranky.
Share your favorite online coupon code websites with your bridal party members and the parents of child attendants so that they can save a fortune on their dresses, shoes and other buys.
Remember that crystals embedded on the part of your veil covering your face can create unsightly starburst effects when the facets catch a photo flash. If you want clear photos, keep these types of accents on the veil edges only.
Ask your officiant what he or she will be wearing during your ceremony to avoid any surprises. (So you're not into purple bedazzled robes?) Make sure to communicate your dress code in advance so everyone looks the part.
Put a bridesmaid in charge of reminding you to reapply sunscreen if you're having an outdoor wedding—maybe she'll even spritz it on for you.
Don't forget to take pictures from your perspective too, like a photo of the two of you driving away from your ceremony with guests waiving at you. We promise your pro photographer can't get shots like those!
Stash disposable cameras in unusual places, like your limo, so you can snap some fun candid shots en route to your reception or honeymoon.
Put disposable cameras—we love the pretty floral ones from Kodak—on your guest tables at the rehearsal dinner to get great photos of your nearest and dearest dressed up. Everyone looks fab at a rehearsal dinner!
Shop for your wedding-day perfume with your groom, so that you both love the scent you're wearing while instantly creating an olfactory memory.
Get permission from your ceremony and reception sites before you purchase or order site decor for either—some locations and venues have strict "No Additional Decor" rules—so you don't waste any cash.
Get on the mailing list of lots of different bridal shops. You'll get advance VIP notice of sales that can not only help you, but also your bridesmaids, get great discounts.
Do NOT put your home address on your personal wedding website. As a matter of security, it's best to keep that private info hidden in your bridal registry systems.
Be aware of any postage rate increases happening now or soon. Make sure to bookmark usps.gov [43] for the latest news on postal rate hikes that could—and probably will—affect your invitation mailings.
Save-the-date postcards in larger sizes require extra postage, so be sure to have a sample save-the-date weighed and measured by a post office clerk for the real postage due.
It is okay to use your own printer to print out attractive block- or italic-print place cards. Place cards do not need to be calligraphed by hand.
Find out when your destination wedding location or honeymoon site has its national holidays, since that time could cause attractions, restaurants and other popular spots to be closed.
If you have several gluten-free guests on your list, be sure to rpovide at least two gluten-free desserts on your menu—everyone should be able to indulge, after all. (Oh, and happy new year!)
For more of Sharon Naylor's advice, check out her special section devoted to bridesmaids [14], read more about her [15], or visit sharonnaylor.net [44] and get to know this bridal guru better!
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