Etiquette Q&A: "Do We Have to Invite Kids to the Shower?"

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Q: My maid of honor is planning my bridal shower and we both agree that children shouldn’t be included. Are we wrong? And how do we let people know?

A: No, you’re not wrong. Bridal showers are traditionally for grown ups. Little ones can become bored quite easily, especially if all those pretty packages don’t hold toys for them! Have your maid of honor and bridesmaids address the envelopes to invited guests only and spread the word that the gathering will be just for adults. 

—Diane Forden