We all know that being a bridesmaid can mean parting with some serious cash. Your pals not only have to shell out for a new ensemble, but they also plan both your bachelorette party and shower. Not to mention, they need to give you gifts for the shower and wedding! (In fact, many of you have probably been bridesmaids yourselves and know the deal.) They may even have to pay for transportation if your wedding is some distance away. When all is said and done, being a bridesmaid can cost several hundred dollars, so showing your gratitude is key. Make sure they know how much you appreciate all that they’re doing. Years ago, brides used to host a bridesmaid tea or luncheon, but you can certainly do things your own way to express your thanks. Take them out for drinks and dinner, or plan a barbecue or pool party. Book a day at a spa or plan your own spa night at home. It’s a great excuse to unwind, relax and reminisce.
Put together gift baskets that capture each friend’s personality. A basket filled with spices and kitchen gadgets is ideal for your foodie/gourmet friend and another basket for the gal with a green-thumb could hold a small plant with a garden tool and herbal seeds. Your music-loving pal will love a CD of her favorite artist, new earbuds or a gift card to download more tunes. Include framed photos of you and your friends as a keepsake, notecards, mini beauty products, fun mugs or any other items that strike your fancy. And to get the pajama party started, warm their hearts and toes with these super-comfy slippers from Dearfoams (the pink-striped thong [pictured above] is $18, and the blue splash clog [pictured below] is $22). They’ll love you forever!
—Diane Forden
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